Romance and Setting a Mood
The following is how to prepare a woman's mind for incredible sex. If you do this even halfway right, her mind will prepare her body for an unforgettable night. What do I mean? Your words and actions will affect her mood. Her mood will affect her body. Once you get her going in the right direction it gets easier as the night goes on. So where do you start?
Romance is more than a candle lit dinner, roses and a gift. Romance is an attitude. The secret to being romantic is to bathe a woman's mind with thoughtfulness, fun, tenderness and security, without smothering her or acting needy. All women have different personalities and expectations so it is up to you to find out what she desires and what combination of romance works best with her. One woman may find it romantic for you to plan a night at the ballet while another may find a camping trip to be the most romantic event.
Things to say to a woman
Communication is the key. Talk to your lover like she is your mistress and she will respond as a mistress. Talk to her like she is on old gym bag and she will respond like an old gym bag. Here
When a Man Makes Love to a Woman are some ideas;
1. Compliment her physical appearance, especially her hair, clothes, shoes and perfume.
A woman wears these things for herself but she also wears them for you. Take notice and compliment her on other things. She will feel assured and confident that you are impressed and she will feel good about herself. Always compliment what she is wearing even when she is dressed very casual. Women are always conscience about their clothes. You can get a lot of hints from women themselves, as they compliment each other. The more you compliment a woman on her appearance, her sexiness, her sexual performance, or anything she does, the harder she will try to please you. Take note of what they say. It is all part of preparing her mind for uninhibited sex.
2. Ask her how her day was.
Be careful with this question and use your best judgment because it could open up a can of worms. If she is angry about anything, you may hear about it after asking, but she may take it as a thoughtful gesture and respond with appreciation. If she doesn't respond with appreciation, it is up to you to tactfully change the subject ASAP or help her view the situation from a positive viewpoint. You have more control over her than you may think. Remember that you are trying to create an atmosphere that is free for sexual expression.
3. Let her know how you feel about her and what it’s like to make love to her.
I know this is hard for some of you, but if you want better sex and a better sexual response out of your lover you will at least try the following.
In a sense, you should talk to her as if she is your mistress. In other words, if sex has become a routine, break the routine. Now some of you still don't know what I am talking about so let me fill you in.
4. As you make love to her, starting with the first touch to the last, tell her what you are experiencing. Let her know what it is like to kiss her, touch her, hold her, love her, look at her, smell her, see her expressions. On the other hand, tell her how good she makes you feel while she gives you sexual attention.
5. Build your lover up in front of others; Compliment her, brag about her.
6. Unless the passion is so strong that you find yourself ripping your clothes off for a quickie, I suggest as a general rule of thumb to saturate your lover with foreplay until she verbally or physically asks, insists or begs you to make love to her. In this way you will know she is ready and she will be much more responsive to lovemaking. Now that you have reached this stage, start teasing her, as slow as you can go, inch by inch, a little in, a little out, take as much time as you can in giving her all you've got. Your objective is to draw her mind into a state of desire, want and need, which leads to satisfying those desires. (More on this in the "Eight Stages to Making Love to a Woman).
8. Hear her.
Most women will let you know what they want, but the problem is they usually express it with sarcasm or resentment. If a woman says, "…you've never taken me to see a play at the downtown theater…". She is really telling you that she wants you to plan a special evening of a nice dinner, a play, then sex all night. So when she sounds like she is complaining, she may be asking for romance.
9. If a woman ever tells you how good you look, she is really asking you to notice her and compliment her.
10. Find out what she expects you to do for her family during Christmas, birthdays and other special events.
11. Wake up! Many things a woman does or says is the opposite of what she really means.
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so i got my girl on a romantic evening. went out, had dinner. went to my place. IT WAS ALL ABOUT HER that day. at home, we were watching a movie together. and damn did her body language tell me all this stuff. i complimented every part of her body. her hair, etc. she loved it. she loved my attention. then slowly i started turning her on.. and little by little. BOOM! - afterwards she told me how it was, and that shes never felt that... EVER BEFORE.. EVER. so she was effin happy. she was hot for me. still is. and i think she wants it again. lol. but hey. its good to start slow. and just get in to her as slow as u can. and little by little just watch her, feel her, and youll know where to go and what to do.
i have a problem with gal she invite me 2 her place, everytyme i know she love but she dosent want 2 reveal it. when iam at her place she sit at other end of the sit. now tell me hw can make love with her. your advice will be greatly appreciated
are you serious? there are much better ways to make love to a woman. It starts with foreplay and ends with incredible mind blowing sex.
no wonder she left--i couldnt understand what the hell you were trying to say in your comment. Learn English and learn to express yourself then you will get the lady and her drawers. Continue talking like a retarded immigrant, and she will "sit at the other end of sit". Good luck!
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This is the worst advice in the world.
These are nice pointers, even though a few points may perhaps seem clichéd. But I like it. But I think a man's confidence makes women love him more than anything else. If every woman could learn how to turn on a man with compliments, I'm sure men too would be more attuned to understanding women, and would learn to make love better.
listen scumbag.. continue to think that just language is the way to express urself and u will never get anywhere. theres other ways to express urself besides talking.. even if u have an accent or ur first language isnt english.
As a woman looking for articles for my husband to read on how to turn me on, I was slightly disappointed that you didn't spend more attention on the details involved in turning on a woman's mind. Mindless compliments don't do it for me. Women need to feel like their man is vulnerable when with us. Show some emotion - anger, passion, happiness, gratefulness, worry, something. Show us your vulnerable human side and we'll warm up real fast. Now the hard part is finding a manual for men to use on HOW to show vulnerability.
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