How to Tell a Guy Likes You

Dr. Mital John May 24, 2010

How can you tell if a guy likes you or is interested? You noticed him when you were standing and talking with a friend. You think he noticed you, but maybe it was your imagination or just wishful thinking. Here are five signs that he is interested in you too. If any of the following happens, he is probably trying to get close enough to ask you out:

He tells someone: -
Is he interested? He likes you if he tells a mutual friend that he wants to know more about you, or he asks other people who you are and where you're from. He is trying to act like he's "just asking" but his questions indicate more than a casual interest. And when he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he probably knows that it will get back to you. He's hoping it does.

The look: - He gives you a look that betrays his calm exterior. Even though he is across the room, "that look" he has says it all. It is sweeping, from your head to your toes, and then his eyes linger on yours. You think you notice the beginning of a tentative smile.

Next, when he gets the chance to talk to you, he asks you a lot of questions and when you are answering he pays close attention to everything you say. He will sooner or later ask you if you are single. When he asks this he is seeing if he has a shot of going out with you. If he does not ask you this question he will ask a friend that you both know.

He appears unexpectedly: -
He likes you a lot if he shows up out of nowhere. He can only do that if he has been asking people about your schedule, or he has been paying attention to where you are going and at what time. His face may turn red when he sees you. A sudden, "Oh, hi," is his way of saying, "I don't want to seem obvious, but I am interested in you." If you feel the same way, do not act shy. Stop and talk to him.

EVERYONE likes you: - Is he interested? When you are well liked and a happy person, why wouldn't he like you? Of course he does. If you don't have a great life, however, now is your time to start working on one? Take a look at your career possibilities, body image, future, plans, and resources. You may be naturally talented at something, but it won't matter unless you work on your strengths. Misused or unused talents fade away. School and training do not.

Lastly he will most likely like you if others like you. If you are a friendly person and are an inviting and open outgoing person it is hard for him to not like you. Guys tend to go for the girl that is sweet and funny and not self-conscious. The way you carry yourself and present yourself is a major factor for getting a guy to like you.