Have u ever missed someone and felt terrible because u think that he/she doesn't miss u? Missing someone is a terrible but at the same time,sweet feeling. U will be sitting around wondering if u meant anything to him/her.Thinking if he/she ever cares about u.Rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that it's him/her.Looking out of the window hoping that he/she will surprise u by appearing downstairs. Sitting in front of the television but thinking of him, missing the final episode of your favourite show.
Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time u were out together.Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the stars again, talking about everything, your dreams,plans,future. Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her online.When u realise that he/she isn't online and did not return your page,u will start worrying if he/she is okay. Missing someone is a way of growing up i guess. It exposes u to loneliness.It teaches u how to cope with being lonely and let u know that there is actually a feeling known as emptiness.
Sometimes it feels good to miss someone. U know that u really care and u indulge in the feeling of loving/caring for him/her.But missing someone and not knowing if he/she is feeling the same is terrible. U feel as if u are being left alone. So if u miss someone, tell him/her and let them know.At the same time, ask if they miss u.Don't let the feeling of missing someone become jealousy or paranoia. If u are the one being missed and u know it, let the other party know. if u miss him/her too, tell them. Don't let them wait.
Well, what are you waiting for then !................
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hi Shilpa
Er. Vipin Singh
Electronics Engineer
JTO BSNL.
hi
you write all as i think every time , i know as she is not for me but fir bhi i am thinking a lot her and
aisa lagta hai jaise vo hamesha paas hai..per aisa ho nahi sakta
really nice you write..
vipin singh
Can a simple friend say 'i
Can a simple friend say 'i miss u' to his or her friend of de opposite sex?
the most heartfelt of
the most heartfelt of suggestions come from friends. say it back. they'll be grateful I'm sure of it.
Might screw happiness..
Well said buddy. U've truely presented inner feelings of life and how it goes through difficult/funny situations. But one thing should be remembered.. its fun to get involved when there are no-responsibilities in life... otherwise.. ppl would realize how-badly it affected their career/dream ..etc.. only when time-passes by. Not that I want to preach here.. but would like to ignite a thought for those who are going to read this article. Life is not full of roses.. no one has laid red-carpet for us.. strive hard.. everything would fall behind.. u .. trust me.
but all in all.. its a good blog and I appreciate it.
I DO MISS
I DO MISS
i miss u
i miss u Zar Le Mon .
i ever think about you because i love you.
i know it aint easy
cheer up pal!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
missing you
What about when you miss someone you love. or maybe hey, you're not totally old enough or experienced enough to know what love is , but he's the only guy who can ALWAYS cheer you up. and knows you the best. knows you better than you know your self. And you let go of your protective shell just a little too late, and he lives far away and you only see him every few months and he has a gf? but you STILL feel this crazy bond b/w you two. and the thing that drives you crazy is does he feel the same way? through out other relationships and years and fights, will my best friend always still love me? i miss you evan.
wow we are going tru the
wow we are going tru the same exact problemmmm hopefully it will get better
it can be the hardest thing ever.
everything that was siad above is exactly want i feel. missing someone can make you just want to die. but just think about good times you have had with them. try to get them back, who knows maybe they feel the same. that is all my advice
im lonely...
well, it is nice to miss someone when it is YOURS someone, but when you know that the person isn't right for you and better to stay away from him, but there is still something inside of you that feels sooo...i guess you miss him...you know it is not LOVE, cause you cannot love someone you don't respect, it is intellectual thing, but there is something you cannot control, i guess you are still in love with the person who hurt you so many times and betrayed your trust and you are strong and not allow yourself to call or tell him how much you still need him and care for him...you even lie to yourself and hope that only SWEET time will heal your poor heart and will make you miss someone who trully deserve it .
I agreee..!! U only hope for
I agreee..!! U only hope for the things to settle down and hope for the best. But if that doesn't happen, U have to learn to move on. Coz in the end, life moves on. Over a period of time U stumble upon someone other with who U madly fall in love, and the past affair becomes the distant memory.
Life shouldn't stop for anyone.
sweety i know exactly what
sweety i know exactly what you are feeling but honey u have to let this person knows how you really feel and if u saw that it is necessary to cry cry cause that makes you relaxed and something else if u think that he's not good for u look for someone else but don't you ever let this feeling makes you miserable enjoy your life and like they say "don't cry over someone who won't cry over you" always put in your mind that you deserve all the best
your new faithful friend
ryma
Feeling the same...
What you written here are everything I been feeling now... it's difficult for us do the right thing when our heart took control of us and we no longer can control ourself, we will start to lie to ourself.. and making up all kind of reason to ourself... :-(
look guys I know how you
look guys I know how you feel, whenever my girlfriend goes away i miss her like mad. Yes, i am only young but i have been in love with her since we met. The way in which we got together was not the best but it worked out fantastically. I have been with her for over a year now and whenever we have to part for spaces of time i am empty inside. The best thing you can do is keep occupied and the thought that when they return will be the best feeling you can have. good luck guys :)
Does missing someone mean you want to see them ASAP?
So when you say you miss your girlfriend like mad when you two are apart, does that mean you can't wait to see her? And therefor want to see her as soon as possible? Or you can be fine to just see her whenever?
I'm doing miss like you
Yeah! guy, I'm feeling like yours. I always want to hear my girlfriend voice. Sometimes I even think about it if i can't hear my voices how I can stay in the world. She let me know world is not meaningless. Honestly, she makes me to complete my life and love. Now, I even wanna shout loudly all my love's for her to know a whole world.
It's Hard
It's really hard when you miss a guy, and you don't know how he feels because he's miles and miles away. He can't call you anymore, or email you because he's busy with his life and vice versa. Your in Louisiana and he's in Japan (Navy Man), and you really don't know exactly when he's coming home......I miss him so much I'm talking in 3rd person narrative. :(
Missing someone
I'm missing my girlfriend so much it's untrue. She went away on a RTW trip about 2 weeks ago and is away for 5 months. We decided not to be in a relationship over the time because not seeing someone for 5 months isn't really what I called a relationship. But she said before she went away all sorts of things about getting back together when she gets back, and we both cried so much before she went away. I could bairly drive when I left her house for the last time coz I was crying so much. She said she missed me in emails/facebook messages. It's just so hard to not think about her every second of the day. Even when I'm doing something else she's always in the back of my mind. I'v worked out what seems like every combination of time that you can put her being away as but over all none of it makes me any happier. I'v been thinking of things to do go help get by till at least I go traveling for a month but thats not making anything go any quicker. I wish I could just go and sleep for the next few months and wake up when this whole things almost over.
Other very special people in my life are also away at the moment doing there traveling thing. And I feel a bit left behind and useless. I don't got away until June but that seems like so long away. Has anyone else gone through anything similar? There must be other people who feel the same way that I am.
Yeah buddy i know sorta how
Yeah buddy i know sorta how yu feel.. but im more lucky on this one cause my boi is only gone for 2 weeks. Thats a really sweet story by the way =] . But like rele.. yu know yu miss someone when yu look up '' how not to miss someone '' on google =p .. teehee. & just to let yu know.. i know what its like to be lonley . so yu can talk to me when ever if yu want ha. scrapy_lil_thing_14@hotmail.com
Umm...
ya, im going through a lil thing with someone i love but am not dating and im wondering if ude mind giving me advice on it. ps thanks in advance either way...ohh and someone where i work calls me joe joe dancer ..so i made it my email..lol
yeah, i know exactly how u
yeah, i know exactly how u feel i had someone too. we are miles away now and i can not see him at least for 10 months . how hard this is!!! i am thinking of him all the time, at nights it gets worse. but the last time i saw him i didnt want to let him know that i am gonna miss him so much...i thought it's better left some thing unsaid. i wanted to tell that i LOVE him. but i guess it doesnt make any sense now. I try to think that he is with someone else right in order to forget him. but i cant . i really wanna see him .
It was me and her . I met
It was me and her . I met her in a school near where I live, where she teach. I was with her for six months. We were always there for each other. Infact, somedays were very hard for me, since I fully manage an investment fund, it was hard for me to work during the recession, but knowing she was on my side whatever happens, it made me feel so much better. I was there for her when her father died. We had a very serious relationship. We tried to spend every second we can together. Soon.... things changed. I'm not sure what do I do to my friends, or weather they are jealous from me.... I'm not sure !!! But in the end, I was in a position where I was "set up". I'm not sure what she was even told ! I'm Losing her for 10 weeks now, and you know what, I can't stand it. I'm calling her, sending her messages, trying to contact her via skype/facebook, but there is no response. We both work in Kuwait, where we met, but know she is in the states for the summer. I flew all the way to her place, but I only saw her mom,which is so pissed off. The way things go.... I can't stand it. I think about her all the time. I can't sleep. I can't decide, and I can't live in peace. She was "all what I wanted", and she will always be. If only I could know what she was told. I can't afford losing her, not today, tommorow, or any other time. Infact, even today, ten weeks later, I probably sleep 2 or three hours max cuz I cry so hard. I can;t sleep with the tension I'm having.....right now, the only thing I could do right now is wait till sept. till she comes back.
I know how you fell, cuz I lost her...... It's just 5 months..... she could be the one.......don't give up....not today.......it seems you need her......and she needs you too.......
SILLY
Hi you are all well depressed and to be honest i feel like an idiot even typing this kind of thing into google because it exposes 2 myself that i feel like this. recently i have started missing my ex bf who i see everyday at college with his new gf & i am over him it is just that i am bored and i know that when i was with him i would always be able to have fun and it was always wicked. also when i am with a new guy i always find faults & get put off .. it is not that i am comparing .. i dont think so anyway.. it is just that the guy i was with was perfect, my type & i know i do not want to be with the kind of boys i am surrounded by presently. Since we broke up i havent said anything like this 2 anyone really & theres not really any need because it will depress me. but im not depressed & u guys all seem it but i just seem 2 think
sooo what
it cant be love if they dont love u back because love is an amazing feeling where u know the emotions are reciprocal
time will always heal it reaaaallly will
u are still alive without them u are just in a frame of mind
all these silly little things have ensured i am always happy ;d i am never sad n im not lying 2 myself .. u only live once do whateeevvver u like make sure u are always happy
CYA!!
Hi you are all well
Hi you are all well depressed and to be honest i feel like an idiot even typing this kind of thing into google because it exposes 2 myself that i feel like this. recently i have started missing my ex bf who i see everyday at college with his new gf & i am over him it is just that i am bored and i know that when i was with him i would always be able to have fun and it was always wicked. also when i am with a new guy i always find faults & get put off .. it is not that i am comparing .. i dont think so anyway.. it is just that the guy i was with was perfect, my type & i know i do not want to be with the kind of boys i am surrounded by presently. Since we broke up i havent said anything like this 2 anyone really & theres not really any need because it will depress me. but im not depressed & u guys all seem it but i just seem 2 think
sooo what
it cant be love if they dont love u back because love is an amazing feeling where u know the emotions are reciprocal
time will always heal it reaaaallly will
u are still alive without them u are just in a frame of mind
all these silly little things have ensured i am always happy ;d i am never sad n im not lying 2 myself .. u only live once do whateeevvver u like make sure u are always happy
CYA!!
HI, I really think its nice
HI, I really think its nice to miss someone.I havent been with him from the last 3 months and i am dying to see him. I even dont know does he feelsthe same for me or not but still....... I know i cant help it out.bcoz i love him ....alot ....lots n lots......
Missing him a LOT
HI, I really think its nice to miss someone.I havent been with him from the last 3 months and i am dying to see him. I even dont know does he feelsthe same for me or not but still....... I know i cant help it out.bcoz i love him ....alot ....lots n lots......
i miss him to hate
hi, everyone, it's nice to see that i'm not the only one who miss someone and don't know if he feels the same...actually he wasn't my bf he was just a freind of hight school but he was the most cute guy i ever met and i really liked him so much but i never loved him then...even i did go out with someone else in collage but still always miss him ive always missed the stupid thing that we shared witch i consider as the most beautifull days in my life ..after 3 years of being apart we get back in toutch on internet we talked over and over and over and i falled in love with every word he said in the end he's gone again (like you said i hope to see him online but he's never there) i konw he probably have his ows conditions but DOESN'T HE MISS ME TOO ?
i miss him every second i feel like there is a hole in my life ...i feel "emptiness is filling me"(mettalica lyrics) he used to say that, he used to love mettalica, i miss him every time i hear mettalica ,he used to make a sens to my life ,talking to him was the only thing i waited for all day long , now all i can do is to think about every funny thing we talked about every little moment we shared and hope just hope that i might meet him someday and maybe he'll tell me that he used to miss me too ...even a little bit.
True and well said!!
Well said dear..whoever u r!! but the only problem is, I know he is not made for me, and i dont want to miss him..but his memories is killing me!!
Missing Someone
I feel so pathetic because I've been missing someone for a year now. Although we've known each other for 20 years what makes it even more pathetic is that we only saw each other romatically for 2-3 months. We're still friends, but we just can't see each other romatically anymore. He calls me about once a month or so and that's the only time we talk anymore. I've tried doing stuff to keep my mind off him but he's still in the back of my mind. I see things that remind me of him, I pass places we used to go to together. I'm trying to let go, but everytime I think I'm doing okay, boom there's something else to remind me of him. I don't know what to do, I feel like I'm going insane because I can't stop thinking about him. I guess I had stronger feelings for him than I thought because I'm getting ready to build my dream house and even that is not helping me keep my mind off him. WTF!!!
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