Have u ever missed someone and felt terrible because u think that he/she doesn't miss u? Missing someone is a terrible but at the same time,sweet feeling. U will be sitting around wondering if u meant anything to him/her.Thinking if he/she ever cares about u.Rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that it's him/her.Looking out of the window hoping that he/she will surprise u by appearing downstairs. Sitting in front of the television but thinking of him, missing the final episode of your favourite show.
Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time u were out together.Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the stars again, talking about everything, your dreams,plans,future. Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her online.When u realise that he/she isn't online and did not return your page,u will start worrying if he/she is okay. Missing someone is a way of growing up i guess. It exposes u to loneliness.It teaches u how to cope with being lonely and let u know that there is actually a feeling known as emptiness.
Sometimes it feels good to miss someone. U know that u really care and u indulge in the feeling of loving/caring for him/her.But missing someone and not knowing if he/she is feeling the same is terrible. U feel as if u are being left alone. So if u miss someone, tell him/her and let them know.At the same time, ask if they miss u.Don't let the feeling of missing someone become jealousy or paranoia. If u are the one being missed and u know it, let the other party know. if u miss him/her too, tell them. Don't let them wait.
Well, what are you waiting for then !................
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DO YOU EVER MISS SOME ONE EVEN WHEN YOU ARE WITH THEM??????????
Some times i miss some people even when im with them... its just the thought of no matter how tight u hold them they will be gone before you know it...
my friend thinks i am a psycho and abnormal for missing some one even when im with them :( but i cant help it...its just a feeling and i cant control it
anyone ever feels like that?
It happens...
yea...i feel that way too, and i think it's because of the very reason you said: they will be gone before you know it. You never know when they will leave and the thought of them leaving gets amplified more and more over time and the amount you think about it. Like even though, sometimes my conversations with the girl that i like would go slow but great once i get my connection with her, but the goodbyes are always so awkward because i just don't know how to end a conversation =/
smthng very true......
all u wrote is awesome and describes inner feelings in d best possible way bt d advise u gave in d last............2 be very honest and practical i dnt think we shud go 2 ppl and let dem knw abt how much we miss dem. bcoz things in real life are nt like movies it's nt necessary dat d other person too miss u and in dis mean world no1 cares ans d moment dey knw dat dey r being missed by u , dey'll start feelin proud and think demselves as "mahaan" bt won't giv u ur part of favour. dey'll even start ignorin u more and njoyin ur pain........trust me guys.....
so bttr go to a lonely place shed ya tears and goto ur wrk
no1 deserves ur attention bt give attention 2 u and ya family only ..........i knw things are nt easy dat way bt at d last dis is d c onclusion after missin sm1 lik hell and nt gettin nice response .............nobody dies virgin life f**** all
Missing Him and Can't Do Anything About It
I feel so helpless...I'm used to having control over my life and my feelings but eversince I met this guy I just can't help but miss him. I constantly think of him and in order to feel normal, I had to divert myself into doing other things. Its really silly though coz even if I have accomplished almost all chores I can think of, at the end of the day, I still feel empty and lonely... and still MISSING HIM.
I miss him a lot but m still wating 4 him
i dont know what to say. i m still in love with d 1 who was in my life 4 yrs ago. in past 4 yrs i have tried countless times to make everything normal but nothing had worked. m still waiting 4 him n will keep waiting till m alive. i really can't think of anything . he was the 1 who made me to believe on his love and left me all alone as it was nothing to huim. but i really love him n miss him a lot. i hope 4 his best, he is my only hope. i just can't help it.
my x-bestfriend moved here
my x-bestfriend moved here last yr and i rele liked him and he liked me but he never knew i like him bc i didnt wnat anyone to no bc i didnt want it to be wierd with him and then one day he decided to leave us and hang with knew ppl "the cool kids "he said "dnt worry we will still ahng out" yeah never did. after he changed his cloethes his friends and his attitude i really started liking him more" kind of like (loving somehting u cant have) anyway i knew somehtig was there but hes to cool now and plus he just asked out a girl and they been going out for a while. the worst part is he knows how i feel and just laughs about it and he goes i lvoe u ur my good friend . it just sucks so when u have the oppertunity dont let it slip take the chance it could be worth it.
I miss him like crazy
i know what it really feels like to miss someone , my husband has to work away in another country, and i really miss him like crazy.....i havent seen him now for 2 months, i have just finished writing him an email, its something i do before going to sleep evry night and i get a reply every morning when i wake its there. i speak to him on the phone , but i need to see him so badly. im going out of my mind. i know he misses me , and i am hoping to see him in about 3 weeks. Lets just hope that i get to see him for longer. it really does you head in when you dont get to the a loved one often, and waiting is the worst thing, its like your heart is about to stop, waiting for the one you love so immensly as i do!!!
omg mee tooooo well its more like this girl i lyk
yeah im gona get a heart faliure soon
kill me pls
lol
I miss him soo much and I
I miss him soo much and I dont have a clue about if he misses me or his ex?
I like him a lot and feel sensitive to his feelings...i dont know what it is? I know he was hurt in his past and thats not my fault...is it? I know him now after all that has happened...He discusses his past with me and I get very sensitive about it coz I feel his pain. I dont know what to do? Please suggest me...
actually that's how i
actually that's how i exactly feel now but i think it's stupid i really wanna stop feeling like that
i miss JORDAN alot i wonder
i miss JORDAN alot i wonder if he misses me........do u think he dose
yes! i do miss someone even though im with that person
though we are always together, i always miss her. it's even more weird, because every time we are together i miss her more, more than we are apart. hahaha! cant explain it.. hmf!
but sometimes make us sad
not always missing someone will make u happy , but sometime will make u sad , wanna to rage , and wanna meet him as soon as possible ..
cause i feeling it now..
i'm so sad..
missing someone...
i looked up "how to not miss someone so much" and i think there is really no solution or way to end it or alleviate the pain of missing someone.. even if you tell yourself it's going to be ok, the feeling will just come back... i'm really missing my boyfriend right now.. he lives in england and i'm in canada.. we've been in a relationship for 5 months now, but it's hard to travel over there all the way across from the ocean.. most of our time together has actualyl been apart.. but, we're so in love.. i just wanted to tell everyone that.. thank you for reading this..
it has made me feel a bit better to read your post as well - especially how you focussed on the positive aspects of missing someone. a lot of the time, when you don't get to be together physically with a person, you can get more in touch with a soul-level metaphysical connection which is so much stronger than just physical affection.. the feeling of yearning for your lover's touch can become as great as the ocean seperating us.. but, i believe that when you focus so much of your loving energy on this one person, they will truly feel it and the reciprocation of those feelings just completes the energy cycle... it can really be the greatest feeling in the world to miss someone who misses you back.. :) ..not always the worst..
oooh i miss him
yes of course this make you happy..as it's mean he becomes a part of your life..
but later you will feel uuuuuuffff ..it's too much ..i'm fed up I MISS U I CAN'T WAIT I WANT YOU HERE ..:( U MAY CRY ..and wondering if he is missing you too,it's really terrible ..
i miss him so much but he is only ma neighbour.
i can see where you are coming from but my situation is a little bit different. i happened to have fallen in love with my neighbor and i think vice versa, but the problem is dat i think i have given so much of myself to him emotionally and slightly physically that i have to decided to avoid him deliberately so i could break off the bond between us but at the moment i am not succeeding. i miss him soo much i cant even sleep at night and to think he is only one door away is soo depressing. i wish there was a way out but its only gets worse as he lives soo close.
for u i misssssssssssssssssssssss u
hi i miss u my lover so much n i need u all my time more than any one in my life
he's studying in Melisea and I can't see him 1 year so
I do not know how I can I bear this long time in my heart without crying and without missing him I can't so I love you my lover and I hope see you soon
becoz I nothing without you and I can't Breathe my air without you
I love you Ahmad so much
sooo i'm missing someone
missin someone?
I was thinking about the soldiers and how each one must miss someone.
So far away sometimes where weeks feel like just a couple of days.
At the same time a minute can take a lifetime to understand.
I wrote this song where four minutes are really decades.
http://moes-music-place.piczo.com
I sang and played the instruments
Anyway, Hope ya like it,
Peace,
Moe
miss some1
I know how you feel!Me and my gf split up2months ago,she told me she didn't love me anymore!I lived with her+i am missing her so much.Ive tried going out with other girls but it dosent work.Love her so,so much+i would give my right arm to get her back!I just wonder every sec of the day if she is missing me,we are still in contact+i keep on thinking to myself that its still meant to be.Am i mad?
I met an amazing amazing
I met an amazing amazing amazing guy this summer and a conference i went to for teenagers. He lives in KY and I live in CA and I miss him like crazy. I've never missed anyone like I miss him. I know for a fact he misses me too and we talk all the time. So I guess my story doesnt really fit in very well with the rest of yours. But missing someone is incredibly hard even if they miss you too. And someone before me said that you start missing him even before hes gone. I know exactly what thats like. The last couple days I had with him I just wanted to cry...I miss him so much. I don't know if its love cuz I'm only 17 and I don't think I have enough experience to know but I would do anything to see him again and feel his arms around me. I know guys like him are hard to find. he is 100% amazing and its so incredibly hard to not see him. Sometimes I don't know what to do about it..
i may be wrong but believe it
look i may be wrong for i am going to say right now.
but just to let YOU ALL know... if you miss someone ever so badly but you do not WANT to embarrass yourself by saying it out loud, then all you got to do is just get your ass out and socialize with every opposite sex you can find out there(preferably your age or so). this eventually helps to buy time for you, buy space for you, so that you won't miss that* someone so much. it works, trust me... it only takes a little bit of courage to get some other girls number and just plan a date or two... or three.
there is no one in the world you can't live without, not unless she is superbly that of a standard for you to do so(to miss her). so please, try to understand yourself, ask is she the only one for you? is she the only living human worth it for you to miss so much? what if she doesn't miss you?
so, by clicking with other girls/guys... you will START to lose the *i miss you* feelings. let loose of yourself.
I'm not the devil here right? geez..
aha!
Really? hm.... u can't lied urself . person like u never a true love coz of ur big ego. we hav d same problem:))
Be happy :)
I miss him soooo much. I sometimes want to cry but then I think about it and then I tell myself that I am crazy. This cant be true love because if it was true love then it would have worked out. I know there is a reason for everything in life, I just have to make myself believe in that. Even if I never get that person, it doesn't matter because I have everything in life already....great friends who are there for me, a family and happiness. Something which I know that person is trying so hard to get. I still look up to that person the same way. But it is time that we all moved on and forget everything about that certain person in our life. God doesnt want us to hurt ourselves, we just have to learn from our mistakes and experiences and move on and forget about it. I am sure if they were here with me, they would agree with me on this. Move on and just be happy with your life and thankful for what you have. There are so many people dying everyday for so many reasons. We are so privileged to have this life, so please just be happy. :)
I..uh.. miss him..
His friends started it.. But he confirmed it.. I'm old enough to know the people i can trust. Apparently no one but still.. there ARE some people one can trust at least a bit..
We are from two different cultures.. Well...I had a wee crush on him in the beginning.. but when i knew from his friends that he liked me as well.. I let that crush grow into 'liking' . . We got to talk b4 he left to his country.. I was happy about that. But now, i miss him.. though he hardly keeps in touch.. i know he still likes me.. Cuz when he speaks to me, i can feel it.
I will see him in his country next year.. But i can't wait.. and I'm scared if my feelings for him would be crushed the next time i meet him.. I have fears within me that doesn't let me think in peace! . . I never can possibly like somebody who hardly keeps in touch.. but with this guy.. well. I seem to like him more by the second!.. He's got that 'something special' factor that keeps me thinking of him aaall the time.
I'm pretty confused. Cuz I want this to go on forever.. I've never felt such a bond with anybody in my life b4. I'm a girl who does well at any circumstance. But now.. I like him a lot. . and i miss him a lot.. I need him a lot as well. hmm =(
im sooooo tired!!
i missed my bf like crazy,nd h also keep telling me that he missed me!!...but i dunno if he really do miss me or nt,if he do think of me every moment!! ...im crazy bout him,he's the one that will stay in my heart and mind all the time 7/24...
please anyone can help!! nd tell me how can i make sure that he has the same feeling that i have 4 him!!?!?!...
btw his work keeps him so busy,so im not seeing him...it's been 13 dayz since i last saw him!!!im gunna get crazy...
Oh...
Thank you so much for writing this. At this very moment i am lying in bed in USA (on a vacation), crying because i miss her so bad. She's on a vacation in Australia for the same time i'm here. I have the exact thoughts you wrote here. I miss her so bad, and it hurts, because i spend all day wondering if she misses me the same way.
I miss him so much
He was the love of my life. 17 years. We had our ups and downs but usually floated to the top. After this long, one assumes they will always float to the top. He killed our relationship when he told me over the phone, he wanted to "cut it clean". I was on the third floor of my studio frantically trying to finish in my tiered fog of new motherhood. I can hardly go there now. I don't even want to finish for what is the point.
Luckily, he was my best friend and not my husband, therefore, I still had the love and support of my husband and child to help wheather this pain. I don't feel hurt by his anouncment. I feel the pain of missing him. He didn't break my heart. But what drives me crazy is I am not allowed to contact him in any way. It is supposed to be clean. I miss him so much. It is so serial. One day your getting along and years have flown by, and the next, they disiapear into a fathomless void still alive but not to you.
I loved my friend like myself, if not more. He was my teacher, my mentor, my friend, my kindred spirit, the daddy of my emotions. I miss my daddy, I didn't have one. the one I was born to wanted me dead for I was a girl instead of a boy.
I looked forward to my friends' communications, his comments and his affectionate gestures. I just wish I knew what was so offensive that he had to cut me off clean. Maybe there would be a way to straighten it out. Now don't go gettng mad at me for your dirty little minds to pounder. WE were indeed the best of friends and yes my husband knew.
We were so much alike him and I. I am having a tough time adjusting to his abscence. I was so young when him and I hit it off. I was 25. I'd wait for him to get back from vacations, I'd wait. Now in my 40's I don't know who I am anymore. I identified with him, I looked up to him. I became the abstraction of what I thought he was. It worked. I thought I was so lucky to have a special friend to walk this life with. Now it is lonely going it alone in my brain. It is to quiet.
He had a freaky paranoia panic every time he thought someone was looking and he might get caught with a friend who was a girl and he'd get crazy like a trapped animal- hardly rational. But other than that, I loved all of him. He had a really wonderful spirit, I valued and adored. I miss him so much. It has been a year and he still haunts my thoughts like a ghost. I call him my ghost. Allways illusive, unreachable, untouchable, yet his voice and all our memories replay in my head like a carnival ride out of tune playing over and over in my head. I can't seem to go anywhere in town with out remembering where we have gone and what we did. and how much we loved.
I miss you J
M.
i honestly miss you!
Im missing someone right now....my good friend! We just parted ways a while ago and still I keep on thinking of him. I wanna be with him right now and let him feel how much I miss him. I always miss him.I dont know why! I love him so much. He is my first love. Here's the story goes: We just had our relationship for 3 years way back in college. That was 1995 and now he's married and has a cute 2 year old daughter now. Sad to say, they are seperated for 2 years. Affter a long time...he just called me up last year and said "hi" and "how are you". After that we began dating each other again thinking that we are friends coz we really are even if we parted ways before. We go out very often and have some drinks. We feel so comfortable to each other ever time we're togethere. We still enjoy each other's company and we are still sweet to each other although there are times that we also quarrel just like before when we were still together. We didnt expect that we want more than friends. He told me that he loves me and that he dont wanna lose me anymore. I said...your alraedy married its unfair and what if you are going to stay on her arms again and leave me. He said that he wants to be happy, love again and starts with a new life with me.
i honestly miss you!
Im missing someone right now....my good friend! We just parted ways a while ago and still I keep on thinking of him. I wanna be with him right now and let him feel how much I miss him. I always miss him.I dont know why! I love him so much. He is my first love. Here's the story goes: We just had our relationship for 3 years way back in college. That was 1995 and now he's married and has a cute 2 year old daughter now. Sad to say, they are seperated for 2 years. Affter a long time...he just called me up last year and said "hi" and "how are you". After that we began dating each other again thinking that we are friends coz we really are even if we parted ways before. We go out very often and have some drinks. We feel so comfortable to each other ever time we're togethere. We still enjoy each other's company and we are still sweet to each other although there are times that we also quarrel just like before when we were still together. We didnt expect that we want more than friends. He told me that he loves me and that he dont wanna lose me anymore. I said...your alraedy married its unfair and what if you are going to stay on her arms again and leave me. He said that he wants to be happy, love again and starts with a new life with me.
hi you write all as i think
hi
you write all as i think every time, i know as he is not for me(shayad) but i m always thinking abut him and i feel he doesnt care abut it (shayad)
=s
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