Have u ever missed someone and felt terrible because u think that he/she doesn't miss u? Missing someone is a terrible but at the same time,sweet feeling. U will be sitting around wondering if u meant anything to him/her.Thinking if he/she ever cares about u.Rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that it's him/her.Looking out of the window hoping that he/she will surprise u by appearing downstairs. Sitting in front of the television but thinking of him, missing the final episode of your favourite show.
Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time u were out together.Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the stars again, talking about everything, your dreams,plans,future. Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her online.When u realise that he/she isn't online and did not return your page,u will start worrying if he/she is okay. Missing someone is a way of growing up i guess. It exposes u to loneliness.It teaches u how to cope with being lonely and let u know that there is actually a feeling known as emptiness.
Sometimes it feels good to miss someone. U know that u really care and u indulge in the feeling of loving/caring for him/her.But missing someone and not knowing if he/she is feeling the same is terrible. U feel as if u are being left alone. So if u miss someone, tell him/her and let them know.At the same time, ask if they miss u.Don't let the feeling of missing someone become jealousy or paranoia. If u are the one being missed and u know it, let the other party know. if u miss him/her too, tell them. Don't let them wait.
Well, what are you waiting for then !................
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hahaha...
Whatever. let it go ok? the more far he/she goes the more better.
Is it possible to miss
Is it possible to miss someone that you don't see as a lover? More along the lines of someone that you see as a close friend.
i miss him..
i miss him, like i love him and i hate him..
I miss my girlfriend
i have only been with my girlfriend two weeks but as she lives far away i only see her at weekends because she lives at her nans at week ends, she has lost her fone so i cannot talk to her and she doent have a computer at her house in the week, i miss her so much, is this love or am i just mad.
i keep checking her myspace and facebook to see if she has been on but rarely is other than the weekend i dont no wat to do, what do i do :( i am only 17. some1 help plz.
i miss u Arsh
my dear Arsh.. i miss u more than i breathe...................
plz come to me n be mine forever
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i miss someone.... but i think its to late to tell them.. she might be gone forever
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The craziest of feelings
Well, missing someone is nice and bitter at the same time. Its that time of the day when you know you are going to feel the chest pains, and feel breathless ... and no matter what, with all your experience, you will still suffer as bad as that 12 year old who is falling in love for the first time, you suffer worse. At the same time you know its nice, and you also know that whatever the feeling, whatever the severity of the weakness in your knees and the ardent way you wish tomorrow never comes without her - tomorrow will still come, people will still start their day as though the greatest of miracles never happened, they will still expect you at work and demand your usual input and dump on you your fair share of trouble.
You will literally jolt at every potential for communication with her, you will think you are listening to an underlying intelligence that's moving to make you at least meet her, you imagine that driving by a little later in the day could have made you meet .... only to find its the rest of the world...with its usual cages and useless paranoia and fears. You will keep a diary, to try to make the chaos of life meaningful, it will still be chaos, you will just be re-reading your diary... the pain will remain, and it will drive you to your knees.
Letting her know... sometimes you can't let her know, your family depends on it. You will see the rest of the world categorising you as adulterer, cheater, breaking a family for whims and imfatuations... but you are not yet there. You just miss someone so much your heart is about to break all the time, and you know there is no hope. You look up the internet all the time and read posts by psychologists and psychiatrists and friends of friends... somethings you like, others you don't, but at the end of the day, when all is set, and the night is in, your mind just runs to her, you see your peace with her, you wish you could tell her how your day was, and you wish to listen to what she expects out of tomorrow.
You will see films, he runs after her, but he has a wife and she should just put her mind straight and forget all about him, and your heart just knocks off several beats... you will do nothing of the sort, you will run after no one, and preserve the family you have, the glass of whiskey in your hand will soothe the tremor when she's screaming at you about the usual stupidities of life, and each night you will pray God for a magical eternal peace before dawn, which you know will never be granted.
But day by day... maybe.... it will get better.... persist in what you think is right, and let no one fool you, not even me, with this post !
Crying, Waiting, Hoping
Reason why opened this page is obvious - am missing someone I love bad enough to google 'missing'.
Your comment has touched me... How well do you know her?
I really hope things will get better one way or another! To love is to be brave, to be strong, to be a helpless child whilst being strong.
It is so sad. I wish you happiness.
I loved him alot
dude it hurts man and ive cut my wrist for it it hurt that bad and now hes dating my best friend and it really hurts and even tho he cheated on me with her i still love him alot and now he makes fun of me alot and man it feels like he just took my heart and chewed it up then he spit it out i am so hurt and the only reason he left me was cuz i was raped the night before and i just wish he would have at least been my friend through this and man im crying as i type this message and man it hurts the most when him and my bf and my best friend were killed in a car wreck 2 weeks ago and man now i know that i will never be able to talk to him or even change things around and all you guys talk about is how to tell someone you miss them what if you cant ever tell that person any thing ever again????? I was really in Love with him 2 nd we even broke up 3 months ago!!!!!! How do i deal with this please help me???
miss u frm core of heart
i met him online. i chatted with him for two months.we start liking each other.he forced me to call.firstly i was l'il bit nervous. but how can i make him sad.i phoned him.we both were so happy as we were talking to each other.he gave me so much respect. i care 4 him too.the fact was dat we both liked each other.bt we never accepted.dont know why??? once he asked u lik me??i said nothing nd remained quite.he skipped the topic.we talked for a week only.the next day he asked can i call u at night// i said NO!! he hurts bt didnt show.i knw he was so hurt bt i didnt say sorry.he waited for me to call him nd be sorry.i didnt find guts bt i missed him a lot...
why i made this mistake??after dat he stopped calling me.wenever i phoned him he was nt so happy as he used to be.rather he became annoyed.one day he didnt pick up my call nd send the message that he was buzy.i cried a lot coz dat day i was calling him after a week. After sum tym wen i was talking to him on phone, i said i m sorry......
he remained quite bt then he said dont be so,,,not ur mistake.i felt ashamed.then things started going good but it was matter for two dazz only.then we didnt talk for a week.suddenly one day he phoned me nd said due to work he didnt get time to talk to me. i was so hurt as i missed him too much .i didnt talk to him properly.he didnt understand y i m behaving lik dat.he asked me bt again my silence!!! i didnt say anything.perhaps that was last time wen my love was near to me.after dat we never talked to each other.
i wrote a poem on orkut just to tell him dat i was missing him a lot. he was deeply shaken.dat time my love phoned me bt can u believe my phone ws switched off. just think how could i knw ?? perhaps this is love.....my heart beat felt dat day that he was missing me...
now we never talk on phone.he perhaps deleted my mobile number also.
but wat abt me!!! how can i forget my love whom i lose //my mistakes,,,,bt i learnt lesson dat never make delay in accepting ur mistakes.
nice post..is exactly what
nice post..is exactly what i'm thinking right now. i miss him so deeply . i don't know whether he likes me or not. He treats me as his younger sister. He said he miss me . When a guy said he miss you , does it mean that he likes u or just probably treat u as a friend ? i'm very shy person. i didn't tell him that i miss him. i have kept this feeling from him for so long...i have no idea what should i do next...i try to avoid him to forget him but is hard..the worst part is that we are not so close as we used to be ...
am i crazy about this feeling?
Hi guys, would you like to give some suggestions or opinion?
I met a guy (european guy) in 2007 in a community in my town and he impress me a lot. The next week i met him again. I was waiting to meet him in next week but he was not there. Then at home, i write his name in a wall that i would meet him one day. I wrote like that because i think he went back to his country or in other countries. I pray for him and i miss him a lot. Until 3 months later i saw a man like him driving a bicycle in the street. I believe that he is him but i was speechless not saying Hi.
i didn't know why i could not say Hi. Probably it is bcs i didnt believe that he appeared in front me. After that i didnt think him a lot but i still always pray to see him again. Then, in the end 2007, he came to my dream, i was happy even it is just dream. And then unbelievable moment happened on February 2008. At noon, i came to library in my faculty and i pray for him. Suddenly, 5 minutes later, he walks in front of me. Oh My God, what it is again? i was super speechless and again didn't say Hi.
I lost that chance again. So silly and stupid i am. Why is it difficult to say that we like someone? Is it a problem that girl say what she feel to a guy eventhough she doesn't know much about him?
Or it proves that i am good prayer?
What i should do now? i am still thinking about him. i know his contact from a friend, is it ok if i tell him honestly? How to tell it? Because i don't want live crazy everyday.
iam waiting your helps guys,
Thanks a lot.
miss someone is good or not for life
hi i really miss someone it seen that only problem is, I know he is not made for me, and i dont want to miss him..but his memories is killing me!!.the time i had spend with him was the good memories of my life. but i can,t do any think she is going to marry with someone the guy is well earning and i am also happy about that but his memories killing me and i really miss her lost..... i fell lonely in life i had spend my 3 month and this 3 month will be best memories in my life and i will never forget him because i really love him... i make wish to god she get all he wish in his life what he think she get at without struggle and she never get tears in eyes.....she will happy throught is life.
i miss u!!!
i miss him very much!do you ever feel like ,he is the only one you think about and nothing else?well also for me its great to miss someone.in my understanding it makes you relize more that you really have love for the person....
It makes me feel better
It makes me feel better typing this out, rather than just keeping everything inside.
He's someone I'm mad about, but I haven't been seeing him for a long period of time.
I don't know if he misses me, when we talk, he treats me like a great friend, but neither and I'm sure if he has feelings towards me.
I don't know if he has a girlfriend, I don't know how he feels, my heart aches and sometimes I just regret that I ever met him, ever talked to him.
I just want to weep in a corner, hoping to forget about him, but can't.
Any advices on how to give up on him?
hiiiiiiiiii... my name iz
hiiiiiiiiii...
my name iz ansar.. 2day i m going to tell abt my love story..
i m loving one girl from past 8 years, wen i m 16/y..
but u no nw she not like b4... nw she hv lot of boy frds....
but u knw she is my first love ,i can not 4get her.... wen i marry i ll tel my wife
every thing... so nw also i m talking her & calling her also...
i m true or my selection is bad i dnt knw..
I miss u2 my baby angel. .
Ur right...its a feeling that has the power to kill and heal. But i just realised that we have to let the person we miss know.. I was missing my babe so much but i hate to sound weak and tell him, cause i miss him every single second...just when from missing him i started to feel jelous wondering what he's doing, what he's thinking. . . he texted me sayin that he misses me.. God it felt so good!!! I told him quickly that i miss him too...=D
i do
i miss him more than anything in the world.
I can't sleep without dreaming about him.
I can't eat without that stupid pang in my stomach.
I can't go anywhere without every last thing reminding me of him.
It's been so long,
and we've both moved forward so far.
He's my best friend now, and I fear that's all we'll ever be.
I suppose it's better than nothing at all,
but when we're alone and i look at him, it takes every ounce of my strength not to stand up and run outside and scream towards the sky that I love this boy more than the moon loves the waves, and the sun loves the lillys.
Nothing in this world,
no object,
no scent,
no lyric of a song,
will ever come close to the feeling of being with him.
But i do believe i'll never have that feeling again.
I cannot tell him I miss him,
because I know he does not miss me back.
I know he no longer loves me.
I know it'll never be the same.
missing someone....you.
I never thought I would missed him this much. Even though we are friends now and talk often; I miss what we had, I miss the way he way he felt about me & I miss the way he made me feel. I never would have known (for sure) how much I cared about him or if my feelings for him were 100% true if it was not for this time of longing to be with him & aching when I realized he does not feel the same way. I could be experiencing this in order to learn a lesson on how to recognize strong feelings for someone else in the future or perhaps it's just the way it is w/him and somewhere down the road we'll meet under different circumstance and then I will know, for sure, he's the one for me. Either way, you have to just roll with the punches. Love is a combination of things we can not control- least of all timing & chemistry. So it's like Doris Day says in thie song:
"Que Sera, Sera (whatever will be, will be)"....
When I was just a little girl,
I asked my mother, 'What will I be?
'Will I be pretty?
'Will I be rich?'
Here's what she said to me:
'Que sera, sera,
'Whatever will be, will be;
'The future's not ours to see.
'Que sera, sera,
'What will be, will be.
When I grew up and fell in love,
I asked my sweetheart, 'What lies ahead?
'Will we have rainbows
'day after day?'
Here's what my sweetheart said:
'Que sera, sera,
'Whatever will be, will be;
'The future's not ours to see.
'Que sera, sera,
'What will be, will be.'
Now I have children of my own,
They ask their mother, 'What will I be?
'Will I be handsome?
'Will I be rich?'
I tell them tenderly:
'Que sera, sera,
'Whatever will be, will be;
'The future's not ours to see.
'Que sera, sera,
'What will be, will be.'
(finale)QUE SERA SERA
misss u
i m missing her.. n m missing her most f the time... time being with her..
n m here bcz m misin her..
help needed!!
heyy ppl...i really need sum help...actually ders dis guy from my class whos one of my frends...i had a small crush on him...but he never liked me...!!..i forgot everything and i thought its better if we be friedns only cause i dint wanna lose him!!recently we had a fight...it was his fault...he was being rude and i told him dat...he was really pissed with me...!!..he appolozised and i did the same...!!..everything was fine...but now suddenly he stopped talking to me...and i hate it...!!..he comes online and he talks to all my other friends but not me..!!..in class he talks to each and every girl..!!..it really pisses me off..!!..but the other day he messaged me askin that whether i was coming to school...i replied back...!!..but when i send a msg he doesnt reply..!!..i really miss talkin to him...i dunno wat to do..plzz sum1 help me...!!..im really depressed because of this reason..!!..i really miss him alot..!!!..i want him back..!!..plzz help me out..!!
i miss her and want her back
2 months back i met the most beautiful girl in this world she is from turkey and she was here on vacations ... we started going out but i didn realized tht time was traveling so fast .. now she is back home n m here alone when i miss the nights we spent together it makes me cry.. we both still love eachother can anyone help me plx
I am strugglin for it these days!!
This guy is actually an acquiantance to me!! he is a year above me, i wasnt interested in him before, and the life seemed easy for me! but just this few months, i found out that i was falling in love with him, i feel very nervous and my face turn red when he is near me, i just couldnt stop thinkin of him even now, and those days were very overwhelming, but i still didnt have the guts to confess to him, we were like, stranger to each other, we never talked! how miserable@@
and by the way, he is in yr 12 and today is probably the last day that i can see him and i know that he might never gonna pay attention to this samll me, when i see him i just feel extremely happy!! and i read ur article and it just matches what i thought!!
I dont know what to do now? should i just force myself to stop thinkin of that guy and live my own life or start chasing my Mr Right!!
OMG, SOS, i feel very miserable!!
I feel this now
I know him since we were kids. We never really talked, he was older. As grown up we met again and something about him made a big impresion. It became a fling something I never expected. We have never made it official, you see he is a ladys man. some one you can't rely on. He has a big heart. maybe a little to big. I miss him now and it hurts a lot but it hurt more yesturday. We spent a night together. It wasn't meant to happen that way but thats how it seems to be with us. I will not call him. I really don't see the point. If anything he should call me. I am waiting but nothing yet. He did ask for a relationship once but I knew it would only hurt me more in the end. I will miss him now but the feeling will fade as the days go bye.
missing you..
hello, i miss the person that i used to call mine, i miss him so much, like what you have said, i wish he miss me too!
jsut dropping by!!
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