(This was written by a guy)
They will always smell good even if it's just shampoo.
The way their heads always find the right spot on our shoulder.
How cute they look when they sleep.
The ease in which they fit into our arms
The way they kiss you and all of a sudden everything is right in the world.
How cute they are when they eat.
The way they take hours to get dressed but in the end it makes it all worthwhile.
Because they are always warm even when its minus 30 outside.
The way they look good no matter what they wear.
The way they fish for compliments even though you both know that you think she's the most beautiful girl on this earth.
How cute they are when they argue.
The way her hand always finds yours.
The way they smile.
The way you feel when you see their name on the call ID after you just had a big fight.
The way she says "lets not fight anymore" even though you know that an hour later....
The way that they kiss after you have had a fight.
The way they kiss you when you say "I love you".
Actually, Just the way they kiss you...
The way they fall into your arms when they cry.
Then the way they apologize for crying over something that silly.
The way they hit you and expect it to hurt.
Then the way they apologize when it does hurt (even though we don't admit it).
The way they say "I miss you".
The way you miss them.
The way their tears make you want to change the world so that it doesn't hurt her anymore.
Yet regardless if you love them, hate them, wish they would die or know that you would die without them it matters not. Because once in your life, whatever they were to the world they become everything to you.
When you look them in the eyes, traveling to the depths of their souls and you say a million things without trace of a sound, you know that your own life is inevitable consumed within the rhythmic beatings of her very heart. We love them for a million reasons, no paper would do it justice. It is a thing not of the mind but of the heart. A feeling only felt.
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How cute they are when: "11. How cute they are when they argue." Are you saying whenever a girl poses an argument you only pay attention to how she is rather than that the argument might be compelling or strong? I can see how saying 'everything girls do is cute' would include arguing, but to single that out as a specific point makes it seem like you believe girls can't actually form an argument and that when they try, their effort is overshadowed by just how adorable they are. I'm sorry, but I can say, as a guy mind you, that this is actually pretty sexist. But hey, maybe you and your girlfriend are still in high school and still enveloped in that immature forever-and-ever "love" that you profess to each other every waking moment (which will cease as soon as college starts and you realize that there are other fish in the sea and that really you don't want to miss out on all the promiscuous and meaningless sex that college has to offer). If that's the case this is excusable. 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But I do see a great whopping "she's a fruit loop" in 13 out of the 25 points. It's not subtext, because please, don't tell me you haven't heard any of these, girls: 6. How cute they are when they eat. "What the hell ...? Don't expect me to eat any of that stuff. OMG, not ... tomato!" 7. The way they take hours to get dressed. "Wtf is she doing now? Sunscreen? Let's just frelling go!" 8. Because they are always warm even when its minus 30 outside. "Geez, got enough on? You're puffed up like a bloody whale." 9. The way they look good no matter what they wear. "Wtf is she spending so much time getting ready for?" "Just as long as she's not wearing black" "I don't flipping care what she wears." 10. The way they fish for compliments. "She's so pathetically insecure. Why am I dating her again?" 11. How cute they are when they argue. "You're such a fruitloop." 14. The way you feel after you just had a big fight. "Geez, I can't believe she's upset about something this stupid." 15. The way she says "lets not fight anymore" even though you know ... "I'll never hear the end of this, will I? Look, I don't bl**dy care who's right, just shut up already." 19. The way they fall into your arms when they cry. "She's so pathetically insecure. Why am I dating her again?" 20. Then the way they apologize for crying over something that silly. "She's so pathetically insecure. Why am I dating her again?" 21. The way they hit you and expect it to hurt. "That fruitloop." 23. The way they say "I miss you". "She's so pathetically insecure. Why am I dating her again?" 24. The way you miss them. "Oh, yeah, I MISS her, if you know what I mean." *wink wink*, *nudge nudge* From this list of subtexting nonsense, sensible DIY books and unfortunate personal experience, I get a few points that could be applied for at least some men: a) I suggest that at least some men expect women to present their strong side to them. If you can't hold it together in front of him, no matter the phase of the relationship, you gotta ask yourself if he's the one with the stake and hammer. Try asking yourself honestly: "Is he making me look pathetic and feel insecure?" Don't blame hormones, they don't cause the problem, they're merely giving your reaction life! b) I suggest that if you try to be quicker to get ready, you may fail his "pretty enough" daily scrutiny. c) If you go to him looking for compliments, girl, you've gone to the wrong place indeed! Compliment yourself first, at least you can trust your own level of honesty. d) For the love of god, KEEP ARGUING! Hell on earth, if you shut up about things, he'll think he's frelling PERFECT compared to you. He may even carry that big man attitude into his next relationship. e) Nobody's perfect, but there has to be a line somewhere between match and mismatch! Darn, if only it wasn't an imaginary one!13:["$","div","79021022904726",{"className":"border-l-4 border-gray-200 pl-4","children":[["$","div",null,{"className":"flex items-center gap-2 mb-2","children":["$","address",null,{"className":"flex items-center mb-6 not-italic","children":["$","div",null,{"className":"inline-flex items-center text-sm text-gray-900 dark:text-white","children":[["$","img",null,{"className":"mr-3 w-8 h-8 rounded-full","src":"$18","alt":"Guest"}],["$","a",null,{"href":"/author/guest_73325980156310","rel":"author","className":"font-bold capitalize hover:underline dark:text-white","children":"Guest"}],["$","span",null,{"className":"mx-1 text-md text-gray-400 dark:text-gray-500","children":"·"}],"$undefined",["$","span",null,{"className":"mx-1 text-md text-gray-400 dark:text-gray-500","children":"·"}],["$","time",null,{"dateTime":"Tue Jun 01 2010","className":"text-gray-500 dark:text-gray-400","children":"Jun 1, 2010"}],"$undefined"]}]}]}],["$","p",null,{"className":"text-gray-700","children":"$19"}],"$L1a"]}] 1b:T40f,data:image/svg+xml;utf8,%3Csvg%20width%3D%2232%22%20height%3D%2232%22%20viewBox%3D%220%200%2032%2032%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20xmlns%3D%22http%3A%2F%2Fwww.w3.org%2F2000%2Fsvg%22%20role%3D%22img%22%20aria-label%3D%22Avatar%20for%20Guest%22%3E%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%3Crect%20width%3D%22100%25%22%20height%3D%22100%25%22%20fill%3D%22hsl(280%2C%2080%25%2C%2050%25)%22%20rx%3D%223.2%22%20%2F%3E%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%3Ctext%20x%3D%2250%25%22%20y%3D%2250%25%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20font-family%3D%22sans-serif%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20font-size%3D%2212.8%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20font-weight%3D%22bold%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20fill%3D%22%23FFFFFF%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20text-anchor%3D%22middle%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20dominant-baseline%3D%22central%22%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20style%3D%22user-select%3A%20none%3B%22%3E%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20G%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%3C%2Ftext%3E%0A%20%20%20%20%3C%2Fsvg%3E14:["$","div","79019445846422",{"className":"border-l-4 border-gray-200 pl-4","children":[["$","div",null,{"className":"flex items-center gap-2 mb-2","children":["$","address",null,{"className":"flex items-center mb-6 not-italic","children":["$","div",null,{"className":"inline-flex items-center text-sm text-gray-900 dark:text-white","children":[["$","img",null,{"className":"mr-3 w-8 h-8 rounded-full","src":"$1b","alt":"Guest"}],["$","a",null,{"href":"/author/guest_73325980156310","rel":"author","className":"font-bold capitalize hover:underline dark:text-white","children":"Guest"}],["$","span",null,{"className":"mx-1 text-md text-gray-400 dark:text-gray-500","children":"·"}],"$undefined",["$","span",null,{"className":"mx-1 text-md text-gray-400 dark:text-gray-500","children":"·"}],["$","time",null,{"dateTime":"Thu May 27 2010","className":"text-gray-500 dark:text-gray-400","children":"May 27, 2010"}],"$undefined"]}]}]}],["$","p",null,{"className":"text-gray-700","children":"Deal with reality.: I don't really care about the sarcasm or not, (I prefer to think it's some fiction written by some repressed poetic tragedy) but it's true about the self esteem. And so totally true: if talking about things makes you mad, you know you don't deal with the reality of the situation very well. \nwhich explains why most of the people posting here are angry. It's love or it's sex. It makes me cranky too because the whole thing sucks so much."}],["$","div",null,{"className":"flex items-center mt-4 space-x-4","children":["$","button",null,{"type":"button","className":"flex items-center font-medium text-sm text-gray-500 hover:underline dark:text-gray-400","children":[["$","svg",null,{"className":"mr-1.5 w-3 h-3","aria-hidden":"true","xmlns":"http://www.w3.org/2000/svg","fill":"currentColor","viewBox":"0 0 20 18","children":["$","path",null,{"d":"M18 0H2a2 2 0 0 0-2 2v9a2 2 0 0 0 2 2h2v4a1 1 0 0 0 1.707.707L10.414 13H18a2 2 0 0 0 2-2V2a2 2 0 0 0-2-2Zm-5 4h2a1 1 0 1 1 0 2h-2a1 1 0 1 1 0-2ZM5 4h5a1 1 0 1 1 0 2H5a1 1 0 0 1 0-2Zm2 5H5a1 1 0 0 1 0-2h2a1 1 0 0 1 0 2Zm9 0h-6a1 1 0 0 1 0-2h6a1 1 0 1 1 0 2Z"}]}],"Reply"]}]}]]}] 1c:T40f,data:image/svg+xml;utf8,%3Csvg%20width%3D%2232%22%20height%3D%2232%22%20viewBox%3D%220%200%2032%2032%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20xmlns%3D%22http%3A%2F%2Fwww.w3.org%2F2000%2Fsvg%22%20role%3D%22img%22%20aria-label%3D%22Avatar%20for%20Guest%22%3E%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%3Crect%20width%3D%22100%25%22%20height%3D%22100%25%22%20fill%3D%22hsl(280%2C%2080%25%2C%2050%25)%22%20rx%3D%223.2%22%20%2F%3E%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%3Ctext%20x%3D%2250%25%22%20y%3D%2250%25%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20font-family%3D%22sans-serif%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20font-size%3D%2212.8%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20font-weight%3D%22bold%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20fill%3D%22%23FFFFFF%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20text-anchor%3D%22middle%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20dominant-baseline%3D%22central%22%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20style%3D%22user-select%3A%20none%3B%22%3E%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20G%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%3C%2Ftext%3E%0A%20%20%20%20%3C%2Fsvg%3E15:["$","div","79019429069206",{"className":"border-l-4 border-gray-200 pl-4","children":[["$","div",null,{"className":"flex items-center gap-2 mb-2","children":["$","address",null,{"className":"flex items-center mb-6 not-italic","children":["$","div",null,{"className":"inline-flex items-center text-sm text-gray-900 dark:text-white","children":[["$","img",null,{"className":"mr-3 w-8 h-8 rounded-full","src":"$1c","alt":"Guest"}],["$","a",null,{"href":"/author/guest_73325980156310","rel":"author","className":"font-bold capitalize hover:underline dark:text-white","children":"Guest"}],["$","span",null,{"className":"mx-1 text-md text-gray-400 dark:text-gray-500","children":"·"}],"$undefined",["$","span",null,{"className":"mx-1 text-md text-gray-400 dark:text-gray-500","children":"·"}],["$","time",null,{"dateTime":"Thu May 27 2010","className":"text-gray-500 dark:text-gray-400","children":"May 27, 2010"}],"$undefined"]}]}]}],["$","p",null,{"className":"text-gray-700","children":"Great list for sure, except ... : Life is not a fairy tale, and I hate it that people try to sell these sickening fairy floss things like it was. \nThere's also a poet out there that more realistically wrote \"Wishing for a thing does not make it so.\" \nIn my opinion, this list lacks practical application and is no more useful than any other piece of fiction. Enjoyable yes, but fiction none-the-less."}],["$","div",null,{"className":"flex items-center mt-4 space-x-4","children":["$","button",null,{"type":"button","className":"flex items-center font-medium text-sm text-gray-500 hover:underline dark:text-gray-400","children":[["$","svg",null,{"className":"mr-1.5 w-3 h-3","aria-hidden":"true","xmlns":"http://www.w3.org/2000/svg","fill":"currentColor","viewBox":"0 0 20 18","children":["$","path",null,{"d":"M18 0H2a2 2 0 0 0-2 2v9a2 2 0 0 0 2 2h2v4a1 1 0 0 0 1.707.707L10.414 13H18a2 2 0 0 0 2-2V2a2 2 0 0 0-2-2Zm-5 4h2a1 1 0 1 1 0 2h-2a1 1 0 1 1 0-2ZM5 4h5a1 1 0 1 1 0 2H5a1 1 0 0 1 0-2Zm2 5H5a1 1 0 0 1 0-2h2a1 1 0 0 1 0 2Zm9 0h-6a1 1 0 0 1 0-2h6a1 1 0 1 1 0 2Z"}]}],"Reply"]}]}]]}] 1d:T40f,data:image/svg+xml;utf8,%3Csvg%20width%3D%2232%22%20height%3D%2232%22%20viewBox%3D%220%200%2032%2032%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20xmlns%3D%22http%3A%2F%2Fwww.w3.org%2F2000%2Fsvg%22%20role%3D%22img%22%20aria-label%3D%22Avatar%20for%20Guest%22%3E%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%3Crect%20width%3D%22100%25%22%20height%3D%22100%25%22%20fill%3D%22hsl(280%2C%2080%25%2C%2050%25)%22%20rx%3D%223.2%22%20%2F%3E%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%3Ctext%20x%3D%2250%25%22%20y%3D%2250%25%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20font-family%3D%22sans-serif%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20font-size%3D%2212.8%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20font-weight%3D%22bold%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20fill%3D%22%23FFFFFF%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20text-anchor%3D%22middle%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20dominant-baseline%3D%22central%22%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20style%3D%22user-select%3A%20none%3B%22%3E%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20G%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%3C%2Ftext%3E%0A%20%20%20%20%3C%2Fsvg%3E1e:T964,Lord Jesus Loves you: 1John 2:10 In this the children of God and the children of the devil are manifest: Whoever does not practice righteousness is not of God, nor is he who does not love his brother. It goes on to say, For this is the message that you heard from the beginning, that we should love one another, not as Cain who was of the wicked one and murdered his brother. And why did he murder him? Because his works were evil and his brother's righteous. 14) We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love the brethern. He who does not love his brother abides in death. 15) Whoever hates his brother is a muderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him. 16) By this we know love, because He laid down His life for us. And we also ought to lay down our lives for the brethren. 17)But whoever has this world's goods, and sees his brother in need, and shuts up his heart from him, how does the love of God abide in him? 18) My little children, let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth. What does it mean to hate you brother? 1Cor. 13:4-7 says what love is and can show us what love is not! Love is patient, hate is being impatient! Love is kind, hate is unkind, rude Etc..... Love is not jealous, You get the picture! Why is it that most churches lack this kind of Love? We are to Love! We are to love even our enemies! No matter where we are or what we are doing we are to Love! Our mercy is to out weigh our judgements! We are to love our neighbor as ourselves! Isn't it Gods goodness that leads us to repentance? How can we say we love our brother and then speak a word of judgement agaisnt him, judgement brings death, not only to our brother, but to us. The word says we are judged with the same measurement. Love is the key to seeing faith work in a persons life,, even if they are sinning, it is the love that brings life, to death and changes darkness into light. Love looks past the outside and looks with the eyes of Jesus, He laid His life down for the sinner, to show us Love, God is Love! If we are to show people the face of God, we must show them Gods goodness! If we are saved by grace, are we not suppose to treat eachother the way Jesus has loved us! Undeserved Favor! Are any of us without sin yet? I think we all need to practice righteousness, it takes time to get it right!16:["$","div","78946699837846",{"className":"border-l-4 border-gray-200 pl-4","children":[["$","div",null,{"className":"flex items-center gap-2 mb-2","children":["$","address",null,{"className":"flex items-center mb-6 not-italic","children":["$","div",null,{"className":"inline-flex items-center text-sm text-gray-900 dark:text-white","children":[["$","img",null,{"className":"mr-3 w-8 h-8 rounded-full","src":"$1d","alt":"Guest"}],["$","a",null,{"href":"/author/guest_73325980156310","rel":"author","className":"font-bold capitalize hover:underline dark:text-white","children":"Guest"}],["$","span",null,{"className":"mx-1 text-md text-gray-400 dark:text-gray-500","children":"·"}],"$undefined",["$","span",null,{"className":"mx-1 text-md text-gray-400 dark:text-gray-500","children":"·"}],["$","time",null,{"dateTime":"Wed Jan 13 2010","className":"text-gray-500 dark:text-gray-400","children":"Jan 13, 2010"}],"$undefined"]}]}]}],["$","p",null,{"className":"text-gray-700","children":"$1e"}],"$L1f"]}] 21:T460,"11. How cute they are when: "11. How cute they are when they argue." Are you saying whenever a girl poses an argument you only pay attention to how she is rather than that the argument might be compelling or strong? I can see how saying 'everything girls do is cute' would include arguing, but to single that out as a specific point makes it seem like you believe girls can't actually form an argument and that when they try, their effort is overshadowed by just how adorable they are. I'm sorry, but I can say, as a guy mind you, that this is actually pretty sexist. But hey, maybe you and your girlfriend are still in high school and still enveloped in that immature forever-and-ever "love" that you profess to each other every waking moment (which will cease as soon as college starts and you realize that there are other fish in the sea and that really you don't want to miss out on all the promiscuous and meaningless sex that college has to offer). If that's the case this is excusable. Otherwise, grow up and stop belittling girls as if they are cute little playthings that are only there to be pretty and cute.22:T460,"11. How cute they are when: "11. How cute they are when they argue." Are you saying whenever a girl poses an argument you only pay attention to how she is rather than that the argument might be compelling or strong? I can see how saying 'everything girls do is cute' would include arguing, but to single that out as a specific point makes it seem like you believe girls can't actually form an argument and that when they try, their effort is overshadowed by just how adorable they are. I'm sorry, but I can say, as a guy mind you, that this is actually pretty sexist. But hey, maybe you and your girlfriend are still in high school and still enveloped in that immature forever-and-ever "love" that you profess to each other every waking moment (which will cease as soon as college starts and you realize that there are other fish in the sea and that really you don't want to miss out on all the promiscuous and meaningless sex that college has to offer). If that's the case this is excusable. Otherwise, grow up and stop belittling girls as if they are cute little playthings that are only there to be pretty and cute.23:Tba4,I don't get much on the: I don't get much on the "sexual object theme" everybody's complaining about in the list. But I do see a great whopping "she's a fruit loop" in 13 out of the 25 points. It's not subtext, because please, don't tell me you haven't heard any of these, girls: 6. How cute they are when they eat. "What the hell ...? Don't expect me to eat any of that stuff. OMG, not ... tomato!" 7. The way they take hours to get dressed. "Wtf is she doing now? Sunscreen? Let's just frelling go!" 8. Because they are always warm even when its minus 30 outside. "Geez, got enough on? You're puffed up like a bloody whale." 9. The way they look good no matter what they wear. "Wtf is she spending so much time getting ready for?" "Just as long as she's not wearing black" "I don't flipping care what she wears." 10. The way they fish for compliments. "She's so pathetically insecure. Why am I dating her again?" 11. How cute they are when they argue. "You're such a fruitloop." 14. The way you feel after you just had a big fight. "Geez, I can't believe she's upset about something this stupid." 15. The way she says "lets not fight anymore" even though you know ... "I'll never hear the end of this, will I? Look, I don't bl**dy care who's right, just shut up already." 19. The way they fall into your arms when they cry. "She's so pathetically insecure. Why am I dating her again?" 20. Then the way they apologize for crying over something that silly. "She's so pathetically insecure. Why am I dating her again?" 21. The way they hit you and expect it to hurt. "That fruitloop." 23. The way they say "I miss you". "She's so pathetically insecure. Why am I dating her again?" 24. The way you miss them. "Oh, yeah, I MISS her, if you know what I mean." *wink wink*, *nudge nudge* From this list of subtexting nonsense, sensible DIY books and unfortunate personal experience, I get a few points that could be applied for at least some men: a) I suggest that at least some men expect women to present their strong side to them. If you can't hold it together in front of him, no matter the phase of the relationship, you gotta ask yourself if he's the one with the stake and hammer. Try asking yourself honestly: "Is he making me look pathetic and feel insecure?" Don't blame hormones, they don't cause the problem, they're merely giving your reaction life! b) I suggest that if you try to be quicker to get ready, you may fail his "pretty enough" daily scrutiny. c) If you go to him looking for compliments, girl, you've gone to the wrong place indeed! Compliment yourself first, at least you can trust your own level of honesty. d) For the love of god, KEEP ARGUING! Hell on earth, if you shut up about things, he'll think he's frelling PERFECT compared to you. He may even carry that big man attitude into his next relationship. e) Nobody's perfect, but there has to be a line somewhere between match and mismatch! Darn, if only it wasn't an imaginary one!24:Tba4,I don't get much on the: I don't get much on the "sexual object theme" everybody's complaining about in the list. But I do see a great whopping "she's a fruit loop" in 13 out of the 25 points. It's not subtext, because please, don't tell me you haven't heard any of these, girls: 6. How cute they are when they eat. "What the hell ...? Don't expect me to eat any of that stuff. OMG, not ... tomato!" 7. The way they take hours to get dressed. "Wtf is she doing now? Sunscreen? Let's just frelling go!" 8. Because they are always warm even when its minus 30 outside. "Geez, got enough on? You're puffed up like a bloody whale." 9. The way they look good no matter what they wear. "Wtf is she spending so much time getting ready for?" "Just as long as she's not wearing black" "I don't flipping care what she wears." 10. The way they fish for compliments. "She's so pathetically insecure. Why am I dating her again?" 11. How cute they are when they argue. "You're such a fruitloop." 14. The way you feel after you just had a big fight. "Geez, I can't believe she's upset about something this stupid." 15. The way she says "lets not fight anymore" even though you know ... "I'll never hear the end of this, will I? Look, I don't bl**dy care who's right, just shut up already." 19. The way they fall into your arms when they cry. "She's so pathetically insecure. Why am I dating her again?" 20. Then the way they apologize for crying over something that silly. "She's so pathetically insecure. Why am I dating her again?" 21. The way they hit you and expect it to hurt. "That fruitloop." 23. The way they say "I miss you". "She's so pathetically insecure. Why am I dating her again?" 24. The way you miss them. "Oh, yeah, I MISS her, if you know what I mean." *wink wink*, *nudge nudge* From this list of subtexting nonsense, sensible DIY books and unfortunate personal experience, I get a few points that could be applied for at least some men: a) I suggest that at least some men expect women to present their strong side to them. If you can't hold it together in front of him, no matter the phase of the relationship, you gotta ask yourself if he's the one with the stake and hammer. Try asking yourself honestly: "Is he making me look pathetic and feel insecure?" Don't blame hormones, they don't cause the problem, they're merely giving your reaction life! b) I suggest that if you try to be quicker to get ready, you may fail his "pretty enough" daily scrutiny. c) If you go to him looking for compliments, girl, you've gone to the wrong place indeed! Compliment yourself first, at least you can trust your own level of honesty. d) For the love of god, KEEP ARGUING! Hell on earth, if you shut up about things, he'll think he's frelling PERFECT compared to you. He may even carry that big man attitude into his next relationship. e) Nobody's perfect, but there has to be a line somewhere between match and mismatch! Darn, if only it wasn't an imaginary one!25:T964,Lord Jesus Loves you: 1John 2:10 In this the children of God and the children of the devil are manifest: Whoever does not practice righteousness is not of God, nor is he who does not love his brother. It goes on to say, For this is the message that you heard from the beginning, that we should love one another, not as Cain who was of the wicked one and murdered his brother. And why did he murder him? Because his works were evil and his brother's righteous. 14) We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love the brethern. He who does not love his brother abides in death. 15) Whoever hates his brother is a muderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him. 16) By this we know love, because He laid down His life for us. And we also ought to lay down our lives for the brethren. 17)But whoever has this world's goods, and sees his brother in need, and shuts up his heart from him, how does the love of God abide in him? 18) My little children, let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth. What does it mean to hate you brother? 1Cor. 13:4-7 says what love is and can show us what love is not! Love is patient, hate is being impatient! Love is kind, hate is unkind, rude Etc..... Love is not jealous, You get the picture! Why is it that most churches lack this kind of Love? We are to Love! We are to love even our enemies! No matter where we are or what we are doing we are to Love! Our mercy is to out weigh our judgements! We are to love our neighbor as ourselves! Isn't it Gods goodness that leads us to repentance? How can we say we love our brother and then speak a word of judgement agaisnt him, judgement brings death, not only to our brother, but to us. The word says we are judged with the same measurement. Love is the key to seeing faith work in a persons life,, even if they are sinning, it is the love that brings life, to death and changes darkness into light. Love looks past the outside and looks with the eyes of Jesus, He laid His life down for the sinner, to show us Love, God is Love! If we are to show people the face of God, we must show them Gods goodness! If we are saved by grace, are we not suppose to treat eachother the way Jesus has loved us! Undeserved Favor! Are any of us without sin yet? I think we all need to practice righteousness, it takes time to get it right!26:T964,Lord Jesus Loves you: 1John 2:10 In this the children of God and the children of the devil are manifest: Whoever does not practice righteousness is not of God, nor is he who does not love his brother. It goes on to say, For this is the message that you heard from the beginning, that we should love one another, not as Cain who was of the wicked one and murdered his brother. And why did he murder him? Because his works were evil and his brother's righteous. 14) We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love the brethern. He who does not love his brother abides in death. 15) Whoever hates his brother is a muderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him. 16) By this we know love, because He laid down His life for us. And we also ought to lay down our lives for the brethren. 17)But whoever has this world's goods, and sees his brother in need, and shuts up his heart from him, how does the love of God abide in him? 18) My little children, let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth. What does it mean to hate you brother? 1Cor. 13:4-7 says what love is and can show us what love is not! Love is patient, hate is being impatient! Love is kind, hate is unkind, rude Etc..... Love is not jealous, You get the picture! Why is it that most churches lack this kind of Love? We are to Love! We are to love even our enemies! No matter where we are or what we are doing we are to Love! Our mercy is to out weigh our judgements! We are to love our neighbor as ourselves! Isn't it Gods goodness that leads us to repentance? How can we say we love our brother and then speak a word of judgement agaisnt him, judgement brings death, not only to our brother, but to us. The word says we are judged with the same measurement. Love is the key to seeing faith work in a persons life,, even if they are sinning, it is the love that brings life, to death and changes darkness into light. Love looks past the outside and looks with the eyes of Jesus, He laid His life down for the sinner, to show us Love, God is Love! If we are to show people the face of God, we must show them Gods goodness! If we are saved by grace, are we not suppose to treat eachother the way Jesus has loved us! Undeserved Favor! Are any of us without sin yet? I think we all need to practice righteousness, it takes time to get it right!17:["$","$L20",null,{"postId":"75782248464790","endCursor":"78946699837846","initialComments":[{"id":"79021861765526","content":"$21","contentHtml":"$22","metadata":null,"isApproved":true,"createdAt":"$D2010-06-03T05:20:41.000Z","updatedAt":"$D2010-06-03T05:20:41.000Z","authorId":"73325980156310","postId":"75782248464790","parentId":null,"author":{"id":"73325980156310","nickName":"Guest","username":"guest_73325980156310","email":"guest@example.com","role":"USER","isAdmin":false,"image":null,"metadata":null,"salt":null,"publicKey":null,"lastLogin":null,"failedAttempts":0,"lockedUntil":null,"recoveryPhraseHash":null,"recoveryCreatedAt":null,"createdAt":"$D2005-01-01T00:00:00.000Z","updatedAt":"$D2005-01-01T00:00:00.000Z"}},{"id":"79021022904726","content":"$23","contentHtml":"$24","metadata":null,"isApproved":true,"createdAt":"$D2010-06-01T09:16:00.000Z","updatedAt":"$D2010-06-01T09:16:00.000Z","authorId":"73325980156310","postId":"75782248464790","parentId":null,"author":{"id":"73325980156310","nickName":"Guest","username":"guest_73325980156310","email":"guest@example.com","role":"USER","isAdmin":false,"image":null,"metadata":null,"salt":null,"publicKey":null,"lastLogin":null,"failedAttempts":0,"lockedUntil":null,"recoveryPhraseHash":null,"recoveryCreatedAt":null,"createdAt":"$D2005-01-01T00:00:00.000Z","updatedAt":"$D2005-01-01T00:00:00.000Z"}},{"id":"79019445846422","content":"Deal with reality.: I don't really care about the sarcasm or not, (I prefer to think it's some fiction written by some repressed poetic tragedy) but it's true about the self esteem. And so totally true: if talking about things makes you mad, you know you don't deal with the reality of the situation very well. \nwhich explains why most of the people posting here are angry. It's love or it's sex. It makes me cranky too because the whole thing sucks so much.","contentHtml":"Deal with reality.: I don't really care about the sarcasm or not, (I prefer to think it's some fiction written by some repressed poetic tragedy) but it's true about the self esteem. And so totally true: if talking about things makes you mad, you know you don't deal with the reality of the situation very well. \nwhich explains why most of the people posting here are angry. It's love or it's sex. It makes me cranky too because the whole thing sucks so much.","metadata":null,"isApproved":true,"createdAt":"$D2010-05-27T09:15:32.000Z","updatedAt":"$D2010-05-27T09:15:32.000Z","authorId":"73325980156310","postId":"75782248464790","parentId":null,"author":{"id":"73325980156310","nickName":"Guest","username":"guest_73325980156310","email":"guest@example.com","role":"USER","isAdmin":false,"image":null,"metadata":null,"salt":null,"publicKey":null,"lastLogin":null,"failedAttempts":0,"lockedUntil":null,"recoveryPhraseHash":null,"recoveryCreatedAt":null,"createdAt":"$D2005-01-01T00:00:00.000Z","updatedAt":"$D2005-01-01T00:00:00.000Z"}},{"id":"79019429069206","content":"Great list for sure, except ... : Life is not a fairy tale, and I hate it that people try to sell these sickening fairy floss things like it was. \nThere's also a poet out there that more realistically wrote \"Wishing for a thing does not make it so.\" \nIn my opinion, this list lacks practical application and is no more useful than any other piece of fiction. Enjoyable yes, but fiction none-the-less.","contentHtml":"Great list for sure, except ... : Life is not a fairy tale, and I hate it that people try to sell these sickening fairy floss things like it was. \nThere's also a poet out there that more realistically wrote \"Wishing for a thing does not make it so.\" \nIn my opinion, this list lacks practical application and is no more useful than any other piece of fiction. Enjoyable yes, but fiction none-the-less.","metadata":null,"isApproved":true,"createdAt":"$D2010-05-27T09:03:42.000Z","updatedAt":"$D2010-05-27T09:03:42.000Z","authorId":"73325980156310","postId":"75782248464790","parentId":null,"author":{"id":"73325980156310","nickName":"Guest","username":"guest_73325980156310","email":"guest@example.com","role":"USER","isAdmin":false,"image":null,"metadata":null,"salt":null,"publicKey":null,"lastLogin":null,"failedAttempts":0,"lockedUntil":null,"recoveryPhraseHash":null,"recoveryCreatedAt":null,"createdAt":"$D2005-01-01T00:00:00.000Z","updatedAt":"$D2005-01-01T00:00:00.000Z"}},{"id":"78946699837846","content":"$25","contentHtml":"$26","metadata":null,"isApproved":true,"createdAt":"$D2010-01-13T22:08:17.000Z","updatedAt":"$D2010-01-13T22:08:17.000Z","authorId":"73325980156310","postId":"75782248464790","parentId":null,"author":{"id":"73325980156310","nickName":"Guest","username":"guest_73325980156310","email":"guest@example.com","role":"USER","isAdmin":false,"image":null,"metadata":null,"salt":null,"publicKey":null,"lastLogin":null,"failedAttempts":0,"lockedUntil":null,"recoveryPhraseHash":null,"recoveryCreatedAt":null,"createdAt":"$D2005-01-01T00:00:00.000Z","updatedAt":"$D2005-01-01T00:00:00.000Z"}}]}] 1a:["$","div",null,{"className":"flex items-center mt-4 space-x-4","children":["$","button",null,{"type":"button","className":"flex items-center font-medium text-sm text-gray-500 hover:underline dark:text-gray-400","children":[["$","svg",null,{"className":"mr-1.5 w-3 h-3","aria-hidden":"true","xmlns":"http://www.w3.org/2000/svg","fill":"currentColor","viewBox":"0 0 20 18","children":["$","path",null,{"d":"M18 0H2a2 2 0 0 0-2 2v9a2 2 0 0 0 2 2h2v4a1 1 0 0 0 1.707.707L10.414 13H18a2 2 0 0 0 2-2V2a2 2 0 0 0-2-2Zm-5 4h2a1 1 0 1 1 0 2h-2a1 1 0 1 1 0-2ZM5 4h5a1 1 0 1 1 0 2H5a1 1 0 0 1 0-2Zm2 5H5a1 1 0 0 1 0-2h2a1 1 0 0 1 0 2Zm9 0h-6a1 1 0 0 1 0-2h6a1 1 0 1 1 0 2Z"}]}],"Reply"]}]}] 1f:["$","div",null,{"className":"flex items-center mt-4 space-x-4","children":["$","button",null,{"type":"button","className":"flex items-center font-medium text-sm text-gray-500 hover:underline dark:text-gray-400","children":[["$","svg",null,{"className":"mr-1.5 w-3 h-3","aria-hidden":"true","xmlns":"http://www.w3.org/2000/svg","fill":"currentColor","viewBox":"0 0 20 18","children":["$","path",null,{"d":"M18 0H2a2 2 0 0 0-2 2v9a2 2 0 0 0 2 2h2v4a1 1 0 0 0 1.707.707L10.414 13H18a2 2 0 0 0 2-2V2a2 2 0 0 0-2-2Zm-5 4h2a1 1 0 1 1 0 2h-2a1 1 0 1 1 0-2ZM5 4h5a1 1 0 1 1 0 2H5a1 1 0 0 1 0-2Zm2 5H5a1 1 0 0 1 0-2h2a1 1 0 0 1 0 2Zm9 0h-6a1 1 0 0 1 0-2h6a1 1 0 1 1 0 2Z"}]}],"Reply"]}]}]