Love & Harmony Articles

10 Things You Should Never Say to Your Boyfriend

samatha Jan 18, 2010

1) "My ex did the exact same thing!"

Whether it's a desirable resemblance (they both always hold the door open) or a less desirable one (neither one showers often enough), your boyfriend never wants to hear that he's anything like your ex. Ever.

You don’t want him to feel like you're always comparing the two of them, do you? Think about it: Do you really want him to imagine that he does other things just like your ex? Doubtful. Plus, he might think you're still hung up on your former flame.

Either way, a comment like this won’t do much for his self-esteem. So the next time you experience boyfriend deja-vu, keep it to yourself.

2) "Helen's pregnant ... Shhhh"

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18 signs your ex wants you back

Sunny Jan 9, 2010

18 signs your ex wants you back

Why did we make this list? Well, at first, when your heart is broken, all you can think about is how much you miss your ex, and how much it hurts to be alone. Signs that say you're getting back your ex

Because you don't know when, or if, you'll ever see your ex again, the uncertainty overwhelms you.

But then time goes by, and you do, after all, find yourself in situations where you and your ex are near each other. Perhaps you are co-workers, or you go to the same school, or hang out at the same restaurants. Or maybe you know a lot of the same people, and you can't help but collide occasionally.

Or, you might find that you exchange emails, or talk on the phone sometimes, while tying up the loose ends of your relationship.

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Love means never having to say you're crazy

Sunny Jan 7, 2010

Love means never having to say you're crazy

Love is a risk because it presupposes connection.

It is impossible to love in a vacuum. Loving someone means being so closely connected to him or her that what happens to him or her, in one sense, happens to you too. If I really love someone, when he or she cries, I ought to taste salt. If two men are on either end of a boat and there is a leak at one end, the other fellow can't say, "Man, I'm glad that happened on your end of the boat, so I'm safe." People in boats together and people who love one another are connected.

Love is a risk because it presupposes vulnerability.

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What "In Love" means to me

Sunny Jan 7, 2010

What "In Love" means to me

This is not a complete work, there are things in an "In Love" relationship which are unidentifiable.

Some of this list falls under "Necessary to feed and protect an "In Love" relationship."

Some people are "falling in love" ie: feeling that some of these criteria are being met perhaps with "In Love" as the inevitable goal.

One can "fall out of love": this is a tall order for any being to fill.

Reasons to love men

Shilpa Dec 19, 2009

They've got that comfortable place on their shoulder that's perfect for snuggling into while we fall asleep.

They give great hugs, (and always melt our hearts when a sweet "I love you Princess" is added)

What they lack in talk, they tend to make up for in action.

They're at peace with their bodies, except for maybe some minor anxiety over height and baldness.

They rarely lie about their age, their weight, or their clothing size.

They make excellent companions when driving through rough neighborhoods or walking past dark alleys.

They're enthusiastic about our bodies, even when we're not.

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Pain Of My Lonely Nights

Sunny Dec 17, 2009

Watch as this tear falls into empty space
See it fall into life's nameless place
Can you see the sparkle as it catches the light
That sparkle once was happiness that is no longer in sight
As it falls watch it, its color has changed
From blue to bright red, it has a wide range

The Lovers of the Heart

lovely Dec 10, 2009

The Lovers of the Heart

In order to form a more perfect kiss, enable the mighty hug to promote to whom we please but one kiss.

Article 1:
Statement of Love:
The Kiss

1. Kiss on the hand - I adore you

2. Kiss on the cheek - I just want to be friends

3. Kiss on the neck - I want you

4. Kiss on the lips - I love you

5. Kiss on the ears - I am just playing

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What Hug Can Do???

Ragini Khanna Dec 4, 2009

A hug is a wonderful gift to share,
A way to show each other that we care;
There is so much a hug is able to do,
When you feel those arms holding you.

hug

A hug is a place to feel safe and warm,
A comfort for a sad heart that is torn;
An expression of the love in our heart,
For ones who we wish, never to be apart.

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How to take care of your wife

lovely Nov 24, 2009

In the world, one single rule applies to the men: Make the Woman happy. Do something she likes, and you get points. Do something she dislikes and points are subtracted. You don't get any points for doing something she expects. Sorry, that's the way the game is played.

Here is a guide to the point system:

* SIMPLE DUTIES*
-- You make the bed (+1)
-- You make the bed, but forget the decorative pillow (0)
-- You throw the bedspread over rumpled sheets (-1)
-- You go out to buy her what she wants (+5)
-- In the rain (+8)

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The Seven Deadly Sins of a Relationship

Rekha Nov 9, 2009

Just as important as what you should do is what you shouldn’t do — and I’m sure many of you have stepped into these pitfalls yourselves. I know I have. I’ve learned from my mistakes, and have learned to recognize when I’m making a fatal error, and how to correct it.

If you can avoid these seven things, and focus instead on doing the four things above, you should have a strong relationship. I’m not going to guarantee anything, but I’d give you good odds. :)

1. Resentment. This is a poison that starts as something small (”He didn’t get a new roll of toilet paper” or “She doesn’t wash her dishes after she eats”) and builds up into something big. Resentment is dangerous because it often flies under our radar, so that we don’t even notice we have the resentment, and our partner doesn’t realize that there’s anything wrong. If you ever notice yourself having resentment, you need to address this immediately, before it gets worse. Cut it off while it’s small. There are two good ways to deal with resentment: 1) breathe, and just let it go — accept your partner for who she/he is, faults and all; none of us is perfect; or 2) talk to your partner about it if you cannot accept it, and try to come up with a solution that works for both of you (not just for you); try to talk to them in a non-confrontational way, but in a way that expresses how you feel without being accusatory.

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She is a woman

Shilpa Jul 7, 2009

She is a woman

If you kiss her, you are not a gentleman
If you don't, you are not a man
If you praise her, she thinks you are lying
If you don't, you are good for nothing
If you agree to all her likes, you are a wimp
If you don't, you are not understanding
If you visit her often, she thinks it is boring
If you don't, she accuses you of double-crossing
If you are well dressed, she says you are a playboy
If you don't, you are a dull boy
If you are jealous, she says it's bad
If you don't, she thinks you do not love her

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10 Ways to Propose to GIRL....

Sunny Jul 3, 2009

1. Walk up behind girl and point fingers shaped like gun into her back "You're under arrest!" For what?
"For stealing my heart."

2. Hi, my name is Chance, Do I have one?

3. are your legs tired?
girl: Why?
because you have been running through my mind all day!

4. "I lost my phone number, can I borrow yours?"

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Women and Men

Shilpa Jun 29, 2009

Women and Men

At a dinner party, several of the guests were arguing whether men or women were more trustworthy.

"No woman," said one man, scornfully, "can keep a secret."

"I would dispute that," answered a woman guest. "I have kept my age a secret since I was twenty-one."

"You'll let it out some day," the man insisted.

"I hardly think so!" responded the lady. "When a woman has kept a secret for twenty-seven years, she can keep it forever."

5 Reasons Couples Fight and Breakup and What you Can Do About It

Sunny Jun 24, 2009

"5 Reasons Couples Fight and Breakup and What you Can Do About It"

Nearly everyone has experienced a relationship breakup or divorce and it can be one of the most painful periods in your life as you try to heal your broken heart. What we have discovered in our relationship coaching practice, many breakups don't have to happen.
So, if breakups don't have to occur, what cases them and how can you prevent them?
Here are four ideas to help you better understand why breakups happen and what you can do to prevent them in your relationship.

1. Old Fears Surface.

It's to be expected that being in an intimate relationship will inevitable bring up fears and challenges from the past. These might include fearing not being good enough, attractive enough, wealthy enough or even feelings of abandonment. If fears are not expected, looked at and healed, they interfere in some way or another with the health of every relationship. Take some time to notice when the fears surface, be loving with yourself but look inward instead of outward blaming your partner for what clearly is your issue.

Secret of Happy Married Life

Sunny Jun 17, 2009

secret of happy married life

Once X asked Y, "What is the secret behind your happy married
life?"

Y said, "You should share responsibilities with due love and respect to each other. Then absolutely there will be no problems."

X asked, "Can you explain?"

Y said, "In my house, I take decisions on bigger issues where as my

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