5 Massive Reasons To Date Online!
Sunny • onMating & Dating 12 years ago • 5 min read

“Divorced, Split up, Single? Five Massive Reasons Why You Should Be Dating Online!” Announcing five massive reasons why single men should use online dating! How to meet more women than you could possible have time to date. Let’s look at the reasons…

Massive Reason #1. Convenience! From the comfort and privacy of your own home you can relax with a cup of tea or coffee, and scroll through an assortment of potential women to meet and date!

You can even have a beer or a glass of wine while doing it… Instead of late nights in smoky bars and going home disappointed…and then wake up smelling like an ashtray.

I don’t enjoy unhealthy, smoky bars and drunks don’t interest me. Then there’s the loud thumping music where you have to shout at each other to be heard.

Where at home and in your own time, you can go online and pick a suitable profile to email and organize to meet. I love doing this.

So for pure convenience and ease, online dating is the number one place for meeting women! Online dating is a major breakthrough for single men.

You can meet women you wouldn’t otherwise ever have the opportunity to meet! Therefore it creates an even playing field for men who don’t enjoy trying to ‘pull’ [meet and seduce] women in bars.

By learning some basic skills and getting experience, any man can succeed online.

Massive Reason #2. Not Having To Face Rejection by Approaching Women Cold!

This is a major bonus for guys who are recently divorced, split up and have lost their confidence and experience with meeting women.

It is the best way to ease back into the dating scene… You don’t have to boldly approach a woman in public and get her number for a date. You do it online via email, with no nervousness to deal with at all. And if you contact a profile and she ignores your email, so what? You just move on to another until you find one to meet, easy!

Therefore you are not confronted with your fear of being rejected in public, with online dating. And if you do get ignored or knocked back, no one knows but you and it doesn’t MATTER. There are plenty more to choose from…

And by the time you meet, you’ve already chatted via email and on the phone so there is no need to be nervous when you meet her for coffee.

Massive Reason #3. Confidence Building!

You gain confidence by meeting women online and having success with seduction. This is a great benefit.

When I divorced after nine years I was nervous approaching women and had little success. Once I had been online dating for six months I was back on my feet with women. I now have the belief and confidence to approach and meet women everywhere. I also have more skill at handling cold women and rejection when it happens. Because I’ve learnt that it’s impossible to succeed 100% of the time. Every No means you are closer to a Yes. So if you are not getting rejected, you aren’t in the game! You HAVE to be in the game!

The confidence you get meeting and seducing women online will enable you to meet the perfect lady for you. Whether that is online or offline. It’s getting the experience that is important. As Tony Robbins would say, ‘Repetition is the mother of skill.’ :-]

Massive Reason #4. The Infinite Amount of Suitable Women!

It truly is an infinite amount of women available online to meet. By having such a large pool of single women to contact, there is no need to ever be short of at least one date a week.

It’s just a case of being organized and only contacting local women to make the most of your time. There will be anything from two to thirty two different sites in your region to join and check out profiles. There is also many NEW women joining everyday…this will continue forever! So it’s a must for single men to get good at online dating.

You can never run out of women to contact. Even if you exhaust one service you can try another. By the time you’ve gone through all suitable profiles to meet on the other service, the original one will have new stock! :-] Online dating is also very affordable!

Massive Reason #5. Ease of Finding Suitable Partners!

By creating your own criteria and sticking to it, you can find someone suitable so much quicker than offline. That is of course if they are honest in their profile…
[Which sometimes they aren’t.] :-] This saves you a lot of time and money by having criteria. For example, I don’t date women with children. Which is hard in my age group. But dating women with kids will never work out for me, so I just have to stick with my criteria. I also don’t date smokers anymore…

So the more experience and confidence you get. The more definitive your criteria become. By narrowing my criteria I have meet some great ladies a lot quicker than if I had just dated anyone who would go out with me.

Also when you approach someone in a bar you know nothing about them. Online you get to know a reasonable amount before you make contact. This really does increase your odds of meeting suitable partners. I love online dating…I much prefer it to bars as an alternative.

It’s paved the way for me to be comfortable when I am single. Because I know there is a LOT of suitable women online and I’ll be back dating a nice lady sometime soon….

All the best to you…



Login to add comments on this post.

  • Laura 9 years ago
    For seniors, dating online is even more important. Young people have numerous venues where they will naturally meet new people but when you grow older those venues disappear... No clubs, almost zero social life... The only place to find a date is on senior dating sites. Or at least it's the easiest and most successful one. For me online dating is a must.