Have u ever missed someone and felt terrible because u think that he/she doesn't miss u? Missing someone is a terrible but at the same time,sweet feeling. U will be sitting around wondering if u meant anything to him/her.Thinking if he/she ever cares about u.Rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that it's him/her.Looking out of the window hoping that he/she will surprise u by appearing downstairs. Sitting in front of the television but thinking of him, missing the final episode of your favourite show.
Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time u were out together.Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the stars again, talking about everything, your dreams,plans,future. Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her online.When u realise that he/she isn't online and did not return your page,u will start worrying if he/she is okay. Missing someone is a way of growing up i guess. It exposes u to loneliness.It teaches u how to cope with being lonely and let u know that there is actually a feeling known as emptiness.
Sometimes it feels good to miss someone. U know that u really care and u indulge in the feeling of loving/caring for him/her.But missing someone and not knowing if he/she is feeling the same is terrible. U feel as if u are being left alone. So if u miss someone, tell him/her and let them know.At the same time, ask if they miss u.Don't let the feeling of missing someone become jealousy or paranoia. If u are the one being missed and u know it, let the other party know. if u miss him/her too, tell them. Don't let them wait.
Well, what are you waiting for then !................
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- Guest136 7 years ago
I posted a year ago - my comment was no.136. My story was about a best friend who was in a relationship with someone else. I was wondering whether or not to wait or run away and try to get over him.
I waited. Five months later, he split up with his girlfriend. We tried to take it slow, but got together just a couple of weeks later. It was as amazing as I'd imagined it might be; better, even. We just fitted together, loved spending time together. A couple of weeks ago he moved in with me. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. Even my soppiest fantasies never allowed me to think he'd come to feel this way. He's the loveliest, LOVELIEST person ... he's so funny and smart and sweet and loving and affectionate and fun. I feel like I've found my companion in life; someone to have adventures with when times are good; someone to comfort and be comforted by when times are hard. The funny thing is, I still miss him. I thought if we ever got together I would stop thinking about him all the time, but he's still always somewhere in my mind, and I count the hours at work, longing to be back by his side again. I don't really feel relaxed or content unless he's with me, which is an odd feeling for an independent girl like me!
The reason I'm posting is to give some of you hope. Maybe some people are apart for a good reason, but for others, sometimes you'll be lucky and the stars will align and the person you love will fall in love with you too.
Take care everyone xxx