Variety-oriented sex advice focuses almost exclusively on foreplay. That's understandable, since there are endless permutations to the positions and possibilities of this part of lovemaking. The whole body is an erogenous zone, and if a couple has the time, the imagination, and the stamina, foreplay can be new and interesting practically forever.
Most sex advice spends little if any time on the way in which couples have their orgasms because, as we saw in earlier chapters, there are relatively few effective approaches to this part of lovemaking.
But is variety during foreplay really the key to avoiding sexual boredom? Two people can make love in an outrageous number of ways and still grow weary of each other sexually. This can happen if they've fallen out of love, been betrayed, or suffer from other problems, but it can also happen to couples who are in love and really want to make the relationship work. Could it be tha
t another variable is more important to the staying power of a sexual relationship?
How to Do It: -
Straddle your man (lying on his back) and slowly lower yourself onto his pelvis, sliding his penis inside you as you go. But rather than sitting down in a straddle position, raise yourself up off him in a squatting position. Put your hands on his thighs, stomach, rib cage or upper chest for support. Start by sliding yourself up and down his member by lifting your lower body up and down a totally different motion than going forward and back like regular woman-on-top.
Vary your pace, starting with some fast, teasingly shallow thrusts that touch only the tip of his penis, then move down into deep, slower thrusts that envelop him completely. The fabulous friction you'll create will give you the double bonus of amazing sensations all along the edge of your vaginal opening when you pump shallow and on your G-spot when you pump deep.
Spicy sexual positions below: -
The Amazon is not the easiest position, but it does give the receiver a sense of control and power that is absent in most positions. The receiver squats over their partner while resting on the back of their legs, which are brought towards their chest to expose them at a unique angle. Once this position is managed and the receiver is balanced comfortably, and if reachable they can manually stimulate their partner.
The Armchair - a creative position where the giver sits up with his legs straight while the partner sits on top with legs on the giver's shoulders and arms being used for support. Muscling in at this stage is all well and good, however it takes some strength on the receiver`s behalf to perform this position,
The Doggy Style position - This has the receiver settle down low on all fours with their partner holding on to their buttocks. Because of the low position the receiver's rear is pushed right back, while the giver's knees are placed to either side of the bottom. If you suffer from aching joints then this position may not be ideal because the low position requires a degree of flexibility.
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- Guest 9 years agoIf this is your first sexual encounter then stick with the missionary style it's best for the girl. Some sex moves look fun and interesting but fun moves can be awkward and hazardous so not recommended for first timers. As with most things practice makes perfect. If it's your first time for sexual intercourse take things slow. Avoid sex positions that may include you straddle over the man and take entry of the penis from this angle. This sex is more advanced because it's a strong hard position that you may or may not like, simply because you're impaled on the penis and have no control over pain if any. At least when laying on your back you can let him know to go easy. Most men regardless of position will orgasm, unfortunately this is not always the case for women so foreplay maybe necessary for her to climax.