How To Talk Dirty To Your Boyfriend: Things To Say To Your Boyfriend
Chris • onMating & Dating 8 years ago • 3 min read

Learning how to talk dirty to your boyfriend is easy. The most important thing you need to know is that talk is cheap and actions speak louder.

If you want to be successful at talking dirty to your boyfriend you need to be able to follow through with the actions.

Things to say to your boyfriend

If you tell your boyfriend you want to make wild passionate love to him, and then don’t fall asleep on the couch! All that you achieved is aggregation and disappointment. If you do that one too many times he is going to start looking for a woman who has a little more energy at the end of the day.

Make sure the time is right to talk dirty and if you can’t follow through with the actions at that time make sure he knows how you’re planning to, this will lead to anticipation and anticipation leads to excitement and awesome sex.

It’s not important what the things you say but how you say it. A simple “I can’t wait to get you out of those clothes.” Whispering it in his ear just before dinner will give him something to think about. This works real well if you’re having dinner with people you really don’t want to be with. It can take the edge off and your dinner will go much smoother and quicker and neither of you will leave in a bad mood because you have something to look forward to.

Make sure when you are talking dirty to your boyfriend you put a little emotion or feeling into what you’re saying. If you just look at him and say “I want to undress you with my teeth.” He might not be too thrilled with your dirty talk. You need to say it like you mean it and plan on following through with it!

An important note worth mentioning is there is a proper place and time to talk dirty to your boyfriend. Some women say they talk dirty to their boyfriends when their favorite sports team is losing. While it may work for some it doesn’t work for everyone, in my girlfriend's case it puts her husband in an even worse mood. The same is true when he has had a bad day at work. He’s thinking about how to fix a problem and here you are only annoying him by suddenly talking dirty to him. Trying to talk dirty to him at the wrong time will not work. It makes him think you are self-centered and selfish.

The best advice I can offer you about talking dirty to your boyfriend is to make sure the timing is right otherwise the things you say are going in one ear and out the other!


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