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<p>A man can find a million and one other things to do rather than sit down with his partner and (deep breath) talk about their relationship. It's not because men don't care about their woman, its just that the word 'relationship discussion' mean different things to men and women. Often a woman will just want a chat, which can also involveairing her thoughts and worries. However, a lot of men don't see a simple clearing the air discussion as a moan or an indication of unhappiness. He gets on the defensive, says everything she's saying is rubbish; she says, he's uncaring and doesn't understand her.</p>
<p>We've all been there, haven't we?</p>
<p>So what's the answer?</p>
<p>How can two grown-ups manage to have an adult conversation about their relationship?</p>
<p>It's probably a good idea to first of all, recognise that your man sees the whole discussion process from a widely different viewpoint.</p>
<p>Before you sit down with him and begin talking, it might pay to explain that what you're about to say isn't a moan. If you're about to make some sort of criticism,<br />
pay him a compliment first or stress some of the great things about your relationship.</p>
<p>During relationship discussions, men tend to look for logical answers to issues that are less than straightforward. Try explaining to him that you don't necessarily<br />
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1e:T40f,data:image/svg+xml;utf8,%3Csvg%20width%3D%2232%22%20height%3D%2232%22%20viewBox%3D%220%200%2032%2032%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20xmlns%3D%22http%3A%2F%2Fwww.w3.org%2F2000%2Fsvg%22%20role%3D%22img%22%20aria-label%3D%22Avatar%20for%20Guest%22%3E%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%3Crect%20width%3D%22100%25%22%20height%3D%22100%25%22%20fill%3D%22hsl(280%2C%2080%25%2C%2050%25)%22%20rx%3D%223.2%22%20%2F%3E%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%3Ctext%20x%3D%2250%25%22%20y%3D%2250%25%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20font-family%3D%22sans-serif%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20font-size%3D%2212.8%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20font-weight%3D%22bold%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20fill%3D%22%23FFFFFF%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20text-anchor%3D%22middle%22%20%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20dominant-baseline%3D%22central%22%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20style%3D%22user-select%3A%20none%3B%22%3E%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20G%0A%20%20%20%20%20%20%3C%2Ftext%3E%0A%20%20%20%20%3C%2Fsvg%3E19:["$","div","78656923763094",{"className":"border-l-4 border-gray-200 pl-4","children":[["$","div",null,{"className":"flex items-center gap-2 mb-2","children":["$","address",null,{"className":"flex items-center mb-6 not-italic","children":["$","div",null,{"className":"inline-flex items-center text-sm text-gray-900 dark:text-white","children":[["$","img",null,{"className":"mr-3 w-8 h-8 rounded-full","src":"$1e","alt":"Guest"}],["$","a",null,{"href":"/author/guest_73325980156310","rel":"author","className":"font-bold capitalize hover:underline dark:text-white","children":"Guest"}],["$","span",null,{"className":"mx-1 text-md text-gray-400 dark:text-gray-500","children":"·"}],"$undefined",["$","span",null,{"className":"mx-1 text-md text-gray-400 dark:text-gray-500","children":"·"}],["$","time",null,{"dateTime":"Sun Mar 08 2009","className":"text-gray-500 dark:text-gray-400","children":"Mar 8, 2009"}],"$undefined"]}]}]}],["$","p",null,{"className":"text-gray-700","children":"hello: i am in a relationship and i am looking for help to fix it thought i been with this woman for a few years about 5 so far and i did somthing that i shouldn't have thought i should have done i know i am in the wrong for doing it but i am will to change and get back with her but take so dam long it been a month since we broke up and it not the easy to see the light at times she not the easy woman but i dont think i am also so i dont know what else to do \nwhat happen with us is that i token advangs of her while she was in bed but there more to the story but i dont know who i should talk to in here about this so i am hoping i get a reply i will check back we also have one child and a other coming "}],["$","div",null,{"className":"flex items-center mt-4 space-x-4","children":["$","button",null,{"type":"button","className":"flex items-center font-medium text-sm text-gray-500 hover:underline dark:text-gray-400","children":[["$","svg",null,{"className":"mr-1.5 w-3 h-3","aria-hidden":"true","xmlns":"http://www.w3.org/2000/svg","fill":"currentColor","viewBox":"0 0 20 18","children":["$","path",null,{"d":"M18 0H2a2 2 0 0 0-2 2v9a2 2 0 0 0 2 2h2v4a1 1 0 0 0 1.707.707L10.414 13H18a2 2 0 0 0 2-2V2a2 2 0 0 0-2-2Zm-5 4h2a1 1 0 1 1 0 2h-2a1 1 0 1 1 0-2ZM5 4h5a1 1 0 1 1 0 2H5a1 1 0 0 1 0-2Zm2 5H5a1 1 0 0 1 0-2h2a1 1 0 0 1 0 2Zm9 0h-6a1 1 0 0 1 0-2h6a1 1 0 1 1 0 2Z"}]}],"Reply"]}]}]]}]
20:T42e,Help: I am in a relationship for 2 years now.  It seems my partner it is getting tired of me and he is thinking about leaving me.  First of all I have to admit that I have anger/depression issues although I wish to control and I try every day so hard I have not been so lucky to completely stop the crisis and consequently demons that do not allow me to see things clear.  On the other hand,  I am a pretty woman, smart , sweet and sometimes even funny, who for more than a year maintain the household.  He has a daugher which I am always caring for (not only materially) It seems lately he has started to push me aside. It seems I am not important anymore for him, altjough everything I did, seems he is uncertain, he sees I am suffering, yet do not want to talk about it, besides the fact he says he does not know if he needs me.  I am falling into pieces, sometimes I think he is being to tough on me, some others i believe I do not deserve being treated  like this.  I do not know what to do.  Is it all only my fault? Does he wants me to leave him? or the opposite?21:T42e,Help: I am in a relationship for 2 years now.  It seems my partner it is getting tired of me and he is thinking about leaving me.  First of all I have to admit that I have anger/depression issues although I wish to control and I try every day so hard I have not been so lucky to completely stop the crisis and consequently demons that do not allow me to see things clear.  On the other hand,  I am a pretty woman, smart , sweet and sometimes even funny, who for more than a year maintain the household.  He has a daugher which I am always caring for (not only materially) It seems lately he has started to push me aside. It seems I am not important anymore for him, altjough everything I did, seems he is uncertain, he sees I am suffering, yet do not want to talk about it, besides the fact he says he does not know if he needs me.  I am falling into pieces, sometimes I think he is being to tough on me, some others i believe I do not deserve being treated  like this.  I do not know what to do.  Is it all only my fault? Does he wants me to leave him? or the opposite?1a:["$","$L1f",null,{"postId":"75779312451990","endCursor":"78656923763094","initialComments":[{"id":"79242901586326","content":"Talk about Love?: Ahaaa... Could it be: A waste of time & stupid!    Give it a rest; Girls, you really don't want to know!","contentHtml":"Talk about Love?: Ahaaa... Could it be: A waste of time & stupid!    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Anyway, great article.\n\nJulie,\n[relationship problems](http://www.relationshipdisaster.com)","contentHtml":"Guys really aren't: Guys really aren't \"relationship conversation\" types. Most often it leads to drama which they don't care for and then sometimes they care like you say but just isn't up for it or don't really know how they should go about the discussion. Anyway, great article.\n\nJulie,\n[relationship problems](http://www.relationshipdisaster.com)","metadata":null,"isApproved":true,"createdAt":"$D2010-09-22T18:43:59.000Z","updatedAt":"$D2010-09-22T18:43:59.000Z","authorId":"73325980156310","postId":"75779312451990","parentId":null,"author":{"id":"73325980156310","nickName":"Guest","username":"guest_73325980156310","email":"guest@example.com","role":"USER","isAdmin":false,"image":null,"metadata":null,"salt":null,"publicKey":null,"lastLogin":null,"failedAttempts":0,"lockedUntil":null,"recoveryPhraseHash":null,"recoveryCreatedAt":null,"createdAt":"$D2005-01-01T00:00:00.000Z","updatedAt":"$D2005-01-01T00:00:00.000Z"}},{"id":"78960306160022","content":"question for you guys..i need help understanding: Ok I have been dating this guy for several months now. 3 weeks ago we got into a fight I guess and he stopped talking to me and texting or seeing me. This was unusual because we normally seen each other every night, so I asked him if there was another woman so I accused him of cheating I guess. \nWe worked that out and I stayed overnight and got up this morning noticed all of the toys and stuff out. Well he did not try anything with me so why would they be out? I have not been there for a day and they were not out when I left. Can explain this to me? Is he cheating or am I jumping the gun?","contentHtml":"question for you guys..i need help understanding: Ok I have been dating this guy for several months now. 3 weeks ago we got into a fight I guess and he stopped talking to me and texting or seeing me. This was unusual because we normally seen each other every night, so I asked him if there was another woman so I accused him of cheating I guess. \nWe worked that out and I stayed overnight and got up this morning noticed all of the toys and stuff out. Well he did not try anything with me so why would they be out? I have not been there for a day and they were not out when I left. Can explain this to me? 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